That was never the argument. Find a post where I said she should have known he was a killer.
You are being obtuse and dishonest. The issue is that you are advocating assuming the worst of people based on arrests for non-violent crimes.
I am going to play a little game called "What do we call it"
It's like a Phoedra Parks scenario. Use better judgement. Date up or at your level. Gotdamn why sistas get involved with bottom dwellers? Makes me respect the
even more.
RIP to her.
But seriously when will the US do something about gun violence?
What about his arrests and job supports the idea that he is a bottomdweller? He worked as a supervisor for UPS and was arrested a few times for minor offences.
What do we call it a when white person assumed a brother is a bottom dweller because he was arrested for minor offences?
Bruh, the gun violence here is not close to what it is in the US. Not even close.
As for the relationship it all comes down to lack of judgement exhibited by both women. Am I blaming her for this? No, but c'mon breh.
Hindsight is 20:20. Looking at things for her point of view, what judgement was she supposed to make based on him getting arrested for things that can be chalked up to immaturity?
What do we call it when a white person shows disregard towards a brother for minor arrests in his 20s, what would the view be?
What a terrible hill to die on.
US has the highest gun violence on the PLANET!
While Canada has its own issues, it pales in comparison to the US. Not even close.
What backstory is required? A lawyer fukking with a degenerate. Use better judgement.
Supervisor, minor arrests in his 20s. What about his background screams degenerate?
What do we call it when a white person assumes a brother is a degenerate based on the above?
Excuse me sir? I never uttered those words.
Let me get this straight. Homeboy was an upstanding citizen who just snapped one day, got a gun and started jumping balconies shooting at people? You're defending this shyt? A lawyer who has access to a background check and other tools to vet people was "caught off guard"?
Same as the above. For the most part, he was an upstanding citizen. Worked a solid 9 to 5. You're acting as though minor hiccups define someone's character.
What do we call it when a white person gets guarded around brother in consideration that they might snap, because they were arrested several years ago for some petty offences?
Seriously.
This was a mild mannered accountant who found a gun in his pocket and fell from balcony to balcony where he accidentally started firing at random people and the cops. There was no way he could have exhibited any signs or clues of this kind of behaviour prior to this bout with "bad luck".
The above, in fairness is a possibility. However on the information that is available, it is guesswork...
What are your thoughts on the mugshots? We still defending this broad's judgement? Pretty girl too. Shame.
... because the mugshots are not proof of poor character.
What do we call it when a white person determines a brother's s character based on a few mugshots.
Maybe she dies another way. Maybe she doesn't die at all...but a gun is an easy way to kill someone. You can shoot someone in a rage. But killing them other ways may take longer. You may think about it more. She may have been able to put up a struggle if he had to choke her or stab her. Who knows?
This comes down to how does a lawyer date a man like this? Folk staring at multiple mugshots and trying to make a case for him. "you judging!" Yes. I am.
Someone's character is not defined by mugshots for minor offences.
What do we call it when white people do this to brothers?
salary has nothing to do with it. However, dude had been arrested a number of times. That should be enough to cancel him in any sane woman's mind. But not hers.. RIP to her and unfortunate that she had to learn the hard way...
He was arrested for non-violent offences in his early 20s. In the present, he was working as a supervisor for UPS.
Why is the mark of sanity ostracising someone based on a few bad decisions?
What do we call it when a white person shows disregard to what a brother is doing in the present because of some minor fukk ups in the past.
The c00nery I'm seeing in this thread makes me sad. This is the sort of reaction I expect from white people. It is why whenever they kill one of our own, they don't hesitate to put up any available mugshot.
In this situation, the man is a killer but it legitimately makes me sad that your approach would be applied to a brother who matured into responsible adult.
Sad