At what stage in your life do you place "peace of mind" as the most important value . . . .

[Jalether]

when chosing a partner

I'm at that stage now

Life is too stressful already and I work too hard to come home to a nagging ass wife/girlfriend and continue the argument you had in the morning
before leaving for work

So for those on the coli who have reached that stage, what age were you when you started placing ultimate value of peace of mind

 

[I AM WE ARE]

Now and I've literally gone mia to find it. Hey you a place to relax bro it'll be worth it

 

[Jalether]

Now and I've literally gone mia to find it. Hey you a place to relax bro it'll be worth it

I wished I had one but that's the point, a man shouldn't need a safe space from his woman.

I'm divorced now because of it and I have made a promise to never get into a serious relationship with such a woman again

 

[I AM WE ARE]

I wished I had one but that's the point, a man shouldn't need a safe space from his woman.

I'm divorced now because of it and I have made a promise to never get into a serious relationship with such a woman again

shyt that safe place can save your marriage, better still improve your mental health
I got my garage, but even better I got a Lil duck off spot nothing but fresh air no traffic like a lil fishing hole
Get you one bruh, it kept me from going off the deep end

 

[Jalether]

shyt that safe place can save your marriage, better still improve your mental health
I got my garage, but even better I got a Lil duck off spot nothing but fresh air no traffic like a lil fishing hole
Get you one bruh, it kept me from going out the deep end

I feel you
I think women are just hardwired to be a thorn in men's backside and finding a peaceful woman would be
like finding needle in haystack

 

[Capitol]

I don't know breh. I love my mom and she always held the household down but I always peeped how she would just pop up and start shyt or ask my pops about his plans or if he did this or that like the house was getting too tranquil or something so in turn I never really expected a women to really give me peace ALL the way. Like maybe 60-40 or 80-20 if I'm lucky.

 

[Jalether]

I don't know breh. I love my mom and she always held the household down but I always peeped how she would just pop up and start shyt or ask my pops about his plans or if he did this or that like the house was getting too tranquil or something so in turn I never really expected a women to really give me peace ALL the way. Like maybe 60-40 or 80-20 if I'm lucky.

I honestly don't think most men in a relationship have peace 40 percent of the time, it's less than that

 

[Doin2Much Williams]

During the pandemic.



A good personality/head on shoulders/trust worthy > Ocho's, Nueve's and fine Dimes that are stress on the mind.



A vreh was at his lowest point dealing with that shiit... constantly dwelling and concerned about your relationship, living life walking on egg shells. It's fukked up, you invest so much into a relationship and when her true hues expose themselfs... you feel ultimately hella bamboozled. It's really disheartening shiit man, i tell ya.



Fukk all that. I almost murked myself xmas 2020.




Over what... A BYTCH?!?! Brotha, fukk all that.




Crazy to think that prior to that, I was killing it, then got with bonerfide narcissist who killed my soul/spirit and fukkin wallet. Wow. When you start to realize your self worf and how much the world/society needs you... you put yaself on the right plane and realize it's more than just being with arm candy that adds zero value to your life. Stupid bytch! Ugh!



Can't believe this thread is getting me hot and bothered/bromotional



Wow. I might be legit dealing with PTSD. Hence my lunacy and severe mood swings... and delusions.



*runs into wall at full speed*







"Annie are you okay? Are you ok annie..."



.

 

[Serious]

 

[Jalether]

During the pandemic.



A good personality/head on shoulders/trust worthy > Ocho's, Nueve's and fine Dimes that are stress on the mind.



A vreh was at his lowest point dealing with that shiit... constantly dwelling and concerned about your relationship, living life walking on egg shells. It's fukked up, you invest so much into a relationship and when her true hues expose themselfs... you feel ultimately hella bamboozled. It's really disheartening shiit man, i tell ya.



Fukk all that. I almost murked myself xmas 2020.




Over what... A BYTCH?!?! Brotha, fukk all that.




Crazy to think that prior to that, I was killing it, then got with bonerfide narcissist who killed my soul/spirit and fukkin wallet. Wow. When you start to realize your self worf and how much the world/society needs you... you put yaself on the right plane and realize it's more than just being with arm candy that adds zero value to your life. Stupid bytch! Ugh!



Can't believe this thread is getting me hot and bothered/bromotional



Wow. I might be legit dealing with PTSD. Hence my lunacy and severe mood swings... and delusions.



*runs into wall at full speed*







"Annie are you okay? Are you ok annie..."



.

damn breh

hope you are feeling better now

 

[Cereal_Bowl_Assassin]

Idk tbh...personally I've always been a peaceful person so I always told women from jump that I'm not here to argue with them. From personal experience I can usually tell if a certain woman is right for me or not.

The crazy part about all of this is I tell people all of the time. The two things I require from my partner is to be nice and respectful (workout as well)....but sadly thats hard to find...

Me and my girl are good though, we aren't about drama and we compliment each others flaws

 

[JetFueledThoughts]

- Once you have a stressful job that doesn’t stop at 5pm

- Once you begin accumulating enough money that your fear isn’t making bills on time, but growing the money you have into life changing wealth and not letting it disappear

- If you’re fortunate enough to have family / your parents still around, you’ll reach a point where being accessible and helpful to family is a stressor in itself


Can list a few more, but when you see a couple of those enter your life, you’ll begin to value ‘peace of mind’ and support in a partner way more.

She’s a 10 on IG but in real life she’s a headache. Find you a 7-8 who you find beautiful and gives you peace of mind. You’ll be better off

 

[MR. SNIFLES]

25

 

[BornStar]

I found out peace of mind is one of the most important things in life when I broke up with an ex of mine. I literally had one of the best days of my life some days after breaking up with her.. nothing happened that day.. no new purchase , no new car , nothing special just chilling at the crib on a day off with no nagging, no responsibilities and freedom of making my own choice without any bickering, judgement or hating ass miserable energy.

 

[Jalether]

Idk tbh...personally I've always been a peaceful person so I always told women from jump that I'm not here to argue with them. From personal experience I can usually tell if a certain woman is right for me or not.

The crazy part about all of this is I tell people all of the time. The two things I require from my partner is to be nice and respectful (workout as well)....but sadly thats hard to find...

Me and my girl are good though, we aren't about drama and we compliment each others flaws

i don't think that works breh. A woman who is feeling you will pretend until you get into a serious relationship with her and then she reveals hertrue character

It's better to assess her character like an undercover detective and let her reveal her true self organically before you get too serious