At what point of dating do you consider yourself "BF/GF" with the other person?

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I don't think I agree with any of these answers.
I think most people are in relationships with people even before they formally call each other BF/GF.

You're already emotionally and mentally there with that person. Way before the words come out. To me, that's when it has become official. It's like when you love someone. You love them before you ever say the words.

And I think people both know when they are BF/GF.
Most of the time, though, you're in denial about it because emotion clouds everything.
Keep assuming if you want.
 

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Probably because you keep assuming you're in one before you have the discussion. Communication saves relationships.
Maybe.
But that's far down the list on why I'm not good at them.
 

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i dont consider us bf/gf until she forces the label on me. I do everything I can to still have sex without being exclusive, calling her my gf, telling her I love her, etc.

there have also been situations were we've been exclusive...and i told her she still wanst my gf. once i even told a girl i loved her...but i still wasnt trying to make her my gf.

Maybe.
But that's far down the list on why I'm not good at them.

then its probably because your pipe game is weak
 

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i dont consider us bf/gf until she forces the label on me. I do everything I can to still have sex without being exclusive, calling her my gf, telling her I love her, etc.

there have also been situations were we've been exclusive...and i told her she still wanst my gf. once i even told a girl i loved her...but i still wasnt trying to make her my gf.



then its probably because your pipe game is weak
:manny:
 

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I don't think I agree with any of these answers.
I think most people are in relationships with people even before they formally call each other BF/GF.

You're already emotionally and mentally there with that person. Way before the words come out. To me, that's when it has become official. It's like when you love someone. You love them before you ever say the words.

And I think people both know when they are BF/GF.
Most of the time, though, you're in denial about it because emotion clouds everything.

You sound like someone who has more restraining orders than ex girlfriends
 
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