At what point of dating do you consider yourself "BF/GF" with the other person?

[charknicks]

I heard this a radio show coming into work this morning.

Some people consider going on 3-4 dates as dating a person. Some people not until you have got busy in the bedroom a few times. So for you personally, when would you say that you are boyfriend/girlfriend?

 

[Commander in Chiefin]

When you decide to label yourself as a couple

@ automatically becoming bf/gf after fukking a few times

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

When you both agree to be exclusive.

 

[DaChampIsHere]

Lol. That doesn't even make any sense.

How you gonna be in a relationship with someone who hasn't agreed to be in the relationship.

You're ony in one when both parties have discussed and decided they want that commitment. Other than that, it's "dating".

 

[MikelArteta]

When she says so what are we

 

[BillCosbyAteMyHomework]

When you both agree to be exclusive.

Exactly. My current boyfriend asked me to be exclusive after about 2-3 dates. If he hadn't, I wouldn't have assumed anything.

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

Exactly. My current boyfriend asked me to be exclusive after about 2-3 dates. If he hadn't, I wouldn't have assumed anything.

Your BF knew what he wanted, lol.

 

[Mr Uncle Leroy]

when yall have the discussion

up to then, its fair game!

 

[malbaker86]

When you both agree to be exclusive.

Stole my thunder

 

[Lana Kane]

When you decide to label yourself as a couple

@ automatically becoming bf/gf after fukking a few times

This is why so many relationships fail because they're solely based on the physical aspect.

 

[Chris.B]

when we say we are....

Women are quick to call you a bf when you hit....no woman I just fukked u

 

[BillCosbyAteMyHomework]

Your BF knew what he wanted, lol.

Well, we met online- I guess I changed my profile pic or something and he was like " she's still dating??? "

 

[swimmingpools]

When its mutually agreed upon and you're mutually exclusive with each other.

 

[Remote]

I don't think I agree with any of these answers.
I think most people are in relationships with people even before they formally call each other BF/GF.

You're already emotionally and mentally there with that person. Way before the words come out. To me, that's when it has become official. It's like when you love someone. You love them before you ever say the words.

And I think people both know when they are BF/GF.
Most of the time, though, you're in denial about it because emotion clouds everything.

 

[gho3st]