Ask A Handsome N!gga
- Thread starter SheWantTheD
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Women just give a breh the
because they think im some cocky guitar player who fukks tons of hoes 
Be all shy and shyt
Ive never had these problems..I was fat in high school. Now im seen as a prettyboy
Fuk it. Ill try to represent for the non light nikkas lol
But yeah i dont have a hard time getting attention or shallow flings, but i do have a hard time getting relationships lol
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bubba scotch
All Star
What's it like to be loved?
SheWantTheD
Veteran
Why do you have a hard time getting relationships?Fuk it. Ill try to represent for the non light nikkas lol
But yeah i dont have a hard time getting attention or shallow flings, but i do have a hard time getting relationships lol
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Trapperman Dave
Basil Fawty
Why women don't want me uncle phil
Fuk it. Ill try to represent for the non light nikkas lol
But yeah i dont have a hard time getting attention or shallow flings, but i do have a hard time getting relationships lol
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Girls dont seem to think so lol
For example, Just recently, a girl i knew for awhile that dated this nerdy simp of 4 yrs that did everything for her, called me up talking about feelings shes been having n shyt, basically i say "theres an attraction there sure". She breaks up with simp, we fuk in like 2 days. Shes telling everybody about me n her, telling her parents, friends etc posting sh*t on tumblr about how the "connection is insane" lol
She eventually starts being weird, checking my exes on fb to see if shes prettier than them, saying stuff like "you dont wanna be with me" after i suggested she gets plan b (lol). Stuff like that. Eventually it didnt work out and she goes back to nerdy simp, yes he actually took her back lol. And now shes "happy again".
Same story alot of the time, does physical shyt quick, even acknowledges personality positives/intellectual aspects that are better than the majority or any guy they've had. But opts out of a real relationship, and quickly too.
Common theme seems to indicate, that theres alot of chicks that get alot more emotional security and comfort in "control".
SheWantTheD
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Yep that's definitely true. A lot of women are also insecure and are afraid of being with that dude she can lose, but there are also those that find that very attractive. How old are you? And thing is that chick was crazy and she ain't shyt. She dumped her boyfriend of four years to fukk a random dude, brags about that dude to everyone then goes back to her simp boyfriend.
It'd probably be better for you to date chicks that don't have anyone lingering in the background or an ex that they aren't over. There are something wrong with women that can bounce from man to man and "fall in love" instantly. As they supposedly fell in love so quickly, they can fall out of love just as quickly. It isn't love though. Just a barrage of emotions, intense feelings, lust, attraction etc that wears down after a while.
CoochieMane
#Wholesomegang
If you guys need answers from the perspective of a slightly above average, 6'5" nikka then I'm here for you.
Well heres the thing, i agree with you totally, the only crazy difference with this situation is that me and the girl were close friends for nearly two years. So i wasnt a random dude. Even the bf knew me. Personally, i knew she had an on and off attraction, but thats not something im not used to, and i didnt expect her to actually act on it, so i was honestly cool not having any of this go down lol but i did care about her as a person, and her reaching out about feels had me thinking it was something that actually culminated over a two year timespan, so i naively...trusted that my "friend" was being pretty... genuine. Which is why i gave it a go, But Instead i was utilized like any other random chick lol
But yeah, funny enough i get the opposite advice than what most dudes get...because i bring an apparent "value" to the table, that puts a...target on my back. Chicks see as someone they can get SOMETHING out of, whether ot be validation, or creating jealousy, or sex. Thus people tell me i actually need to be more....particular about who i mess with. Whereas most are told to be less picky lol
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Redwood
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SleezyBigSlim
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The good Lord knows who to bless with looks and who not. Most nikkas would ruin the word literally if they were pretty. A half decent looking black man can knock chicks down with no problems and get so much p*ssy and temptation as it is. Make a nikka good looking and it's over withI'm just spittin' reality. This was what literally happened to me today
Sure I could fukk a lotta women off my looks if I run a numbers game, but that ain't what I want. My life is regular despite my looks, but these dudes think your on another level being very good looking.
Misreeya
Pro
Fuk it. Ill try to represent for the non light nikkas lol
But yeah i dont have a hard time getting attention or shallow flings, but i do have a hard time getting relationships lol
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Wow, let me say as a married woman you are beyond. Your appearance is almost bloody "godlike". Are you a model? If you are not you need to be one and make money or at least be an actor whether England, Australia or North America. Like bloody seriously.
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Know some of these feels but I don't believe I'm in the top 10% of attractiveness maybe top 30 (facial alone). All of my mother's co-workers her boss and even her bosses' husband said I'm handsome. I've been grabbed in clubs (not often). Girls grope on me (not often). One Chick said she felt lucky to have sex with me (But I have a BBC too/decent body so I'd if it was the face or total package). Even had a drunk white guy say your a handsome in shape black man you should pray for intelligence and not the tightest puss etc (racist cac). Got questioned multiple times for being gay as recently as last week by this alcoholic white lady who was ugly and ghetto who said she wanted to fukk at the bar. I mean all those moments are nice but when you still get curved you don't know what to think.