not as much as black women but i definitely criticize both genders. it's just that it doesn't seem to sting black men as much. i can go in on black males all day and not once will i hear "you're self hating, your fathers black"
but more importantly, criticizing black males ultimately does nothing long as black women keep pumping the same type of nikkas out of their womb. you gotta shut the factory down before we can re-evaluate the product.
Black men get defensive as well.People simply don't want to be judged based on something they have no power over. & As you can see, bashing black women doesn't do anything either...What progress has been made by bashing black women?None,there isn't any progression.This is what you,Tommy, & his menions need to realize.For example, if you have a child that you want to progress you don't belittle it.If anything its maladaptive & does more harm than good.You can spend years & years & years bashing black women & nothing will change.& I'm sure you know what it's called when someone does something over & over again expecting different results...
as a collective, black men have only been voicing their gripes about black women since youtube came out. a better example of doing the same thing and expecting different results is black women fukking thugs and bums. that's been going for at least two decades now and black women still can't figure out why there's a shortage of good black men. this whole gender conversation is still fairly new to the black community. for the longest time, nikkas just put their head down and agreed with black women. i think this is partially why black women are pushing so hard for IR relationships. once black men finally voiced their real opinion on the issues, black women got on some
" i like white men anyways"
which leads me to believe they never wanted a real conversation over the issues we're plagued with. black women just wanted to bytch and complain about the nikkas they love to have sex with.
Pretty much, they want a hoodlum who can lay the pipe, that they can control financially.
That shyt is cool until they have kids and realize their "man" is just another mouth to feed....
as a collective, black men have only been voicing their gripes about black women since youtube came out. a better example of doing the same thing and expecting different results is black women fukking thugs and bums. that's been going for at least two decades now and black women still can't figure out why there's a shortage of good black men. this whole gender conversation is still fairly new to the black community. for the longest time, nikkas just put their head down and agreed with black women. i think this is partially why black women are pushing so hard for IR relationships. once black men finally voiced their real opinion on the issues, black women got on some
" i like white men anyways"
which leads me to believe they never wanted a real conversation over the issues we're plagued with. black women just wanted to bytch and complain about the nikkas they love to have sex with.
Marcuz you clearly still blame black problems on black women.Your views are very biased,narrow, & flawed & you make sweeping generalizations.You say that black women have sex with thugs/bums & wonder why there is a shortage of "good," black men.First of all, it does not make sense.If I have sex with a thug that will not change the fact that there are still "good," black men out there.Secondly, there are plenty successful,power house black women who don't have relations with thugs/bums.& Why is it okay for black men to have relations with multiple trashy h*'s?I see it on here all the time.They get daps for having a "main," chick & H*'s on the side.They get daps for dealing with h*'s in general.However,you believe when black woman seek relationships they should aim for the absolute best.But black men can date,f*ck, have relationships with what ever.
This is how many of y'all think on here.That's why I can't take this "black community progression," thing preached on here seriously.It's a joke to me.
as a collective, black men have only been voicing their gripes about black women since youtube came out. a better example of doing the same thing and expecting different results is black women fukking thugs and bums. that's been going for at least two decades now and black women still can't figure out why there's a shortage of good black men. this whole gender conversation is still fairly new to the black community. for the longest time, nikkas just put their head down and agreed with black women. i think this is partially why black women are pushing so hard for IR relationships. once black men finally voiced their real opinion on the issues, black women got on some
first off, stop believing the majority these coli nikkas fake sexual conquest. these nikkas talkin bout how they fukk this and that be the same ones crying in them "how to deal with women" threads.
but back to my point, there is definitely correlation between black womens lust for thugs/bums and their lack of viable dating/marriage options. it's like y'all don't understand black girls encourage young boys/teens into that lifestyle by shunning the so called "lame/nerdy" boys. while giving their all to the charismatic, yet underachieving types. that's where a lot of black boys fall off the boat, trying to impress these fast ass teens. so once y'all grow out of that phase, and begin to look for real future prospects. guess what, they aren't there are they? that's because society isn't as forgiving with second chances when it comes to black males. most underachievers aren't going to bounce back from failure to become barack obama. it's something that has to be encouraged and fostered from a young age. i mean do you not understand this is the reason a lot of the dudes who were rejected by black girls at a young age end up dating outside their race?
and i never said black women should aim for the absolute best. i would just prefer that over them aiming for the absolute worst. it's like many of y'all starve out the men you should be hooking up with for commited relationships. while completely getting smutted out by dudes who mean you no good. so while you want me to address the criticize the those men, we're left with the reality that a lot of these types get the most p*ssy.
This is the cartoon that came to mind after reading what you said.
So instead of checking for the big booty girl in cropped tops why wasn't he checking for the "nerdy," black girls w/ glasses with focus on their future?
not as much as black women but i definitely criticize both genders.