"As Someone That Is Black & White, Black People Are The 'LEAST' Accepting People I’ve Been Around"

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Dude comes off as sensitive without me even reading his post..

What it is that Black social circles are harder to break into, but they are stronger and longer lasting bonds. Once you do and are truly part of one, you basically have friends for life, whether you want them or not lol. White social circles are usually pretty easy to get into but you can get cut out of one simply for being an a$$hole on the wrong day, mainly because white people as a whole tend to be more fickle than black people and have "more options" as far as comradery goes. I used to have these types of convos with a lot of my white friends and they all pretty much agreed that black friends were harder to make friends with and they get more grief (they couldn't handle getting cracked on) but they had better friendships with black people than most white people
 

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Didn't read. Title is something a c00n would say to fit in with white people. Next.
 

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Great point, myself as a mixed breh (African-European) I can say that a lot of mixed persons end up living/experiencing a more advantaged life, if only because half of your parents has the white advantage. So you're gonna see/experience/hear different stuff than 100 % Black people. So now when you do end up in groups with more Black people you might be surprised, possibly "shocked" by some stuff. The key is understanding that it's differences in cultures/ways of speaking/etc, not something necessarily aimed at YOU as an individual. I've had more Black people question my identity and call me "a fake African" or whatnot than White people question my identity, but I understand where that comes from and how white people can see me as a token and hide their racism. So once I get over that and actually speak with those Black people who might call me that it's usually all good afterwards. And even if it isn't, I know very well that on a macro scale that kind of "non-acceptance" is nothing compared to overall White supremacy. So in some way I try to "get over myself" and see the broader picture. Understand why some Black people may not be as "accepting" as you wish they were, and also understand why some White people seem more "accepting" than those Black people. We don't evolve in a vacuum, there's deep underlying historical reasons for both.

Didn't read the post in OP because I have a feeling it's trash.


I got a biracial cousin...but we never treated her any different...but then we are of a different class...due to our education level and her father is a wigger and they live in an metropolitan area...

So she probably hasnt experienced any backlash and she kinda identifies as Black...like she don't cater towards Whiteness



And the OP is trash, basically said Black people are the biggest bigots and we need to be respectable...and not live in the past....

I am 80 percent convinced that a Black biracial person did not write that...

I've read enough Tumblr Black biracial angst to know that nobody is saying their redneck family is actually the nicest motherfukkers and all their hood Black family hate everyone...
 
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i'd bet my life, thats a white man wrote that.

They even have a subreddit devoted to calling out these obvious white supremacists masquerading as black people online to further their lies and agenda.

As a black man...

Soon as they said their dad got a basketball scholarship to escape the hood and their mom is poor and their dad said Black people are terrible...but he goes Hunting with his cac family and they all love him...


I knew that shyt was fake... probably someone from the Donald wrote that
 

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Black folks will talk a lot of shyt on our way to supporting you, while other groups will give you endlessly pleasantries while trying to fukk you over in the background. It's the classic case of worrying more about what is said instead of paying attention to what is done.
 
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I have plenty of mixed folks in my family, cousins and half-siblings.

A biracial that grows up around positive black people will usually be comfortable in their blackness. If they grow up around negative black people, it might be a problem.....ESPECIALLY if their first interactions with whites are positive.

If you're going to pawg, there's an easy way to know if shyt will work out. As a breh, if you meet a pawg and she's uncomfortable around brehettes but loves brehs......that's a huge red flag. Never trust a WW that can't get along with black women. That doesn't mean you want some project/trailer-trash WW, but she should be able to interact with educated/intelligent black women in a positive manner and not say or think dumb shyt ("you're soooo articulate", "you're black...but not BLACK" etc.).

You don't want a WW helping you raise your kids if she's not comfortable around black people that are her equals or superiors. Her kids will be black, more or less, and they can feel that discomfort. Even without saying anything, her negative attitude toward blacks can seep into the kids and they pick up on that.
 
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