As intermarriage spreads, fault lines are exposed

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Like half the weddings I go to are interracial. It's LA. :yeshrug:

Ya'all worry too much - when communities get more mixed, it gets to the point where everyone is a minority and most of the people you know are outside your race. Doesn't mean you have to marry out but the odds obvious go up. Especially true if you go to college.
 
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Like half the weddings I go to are interracial. It's LA. :yeshrug:

Ya'all worry too much - when communities get more mixed, it gets to the point where everyone is a minority and most of the people you know are outside your race. Doesn't mean you have to marry out but the odds obvious go up. Especially true if you go to college.

My wife is Egyptian, I'm proud of that, we've been married over ten years and will be married for the rest of our lives.

I am sure your wife is lovely but that rainbow community where everyone is multiracial has never existed. Ask your wife where she comes from how darker Egyptians are treated in respect to lighter ones. Give me a single mixed nation where cream doesn’t rise to the top.

Love your wife but don’t deluded yourself. Interracial unions and mixed communities have never solved racial/ethnic disparities they just create new subgroup of ethnicities.

As long as blacks see themselves inferior to other groups mixed or otherwise this just spells disaster for future non biracial black generations.
 

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Like half the weddings I go to are interracial. It's LA. :yeshrug:

Ya'all worry too much - when communities get more mixed, it gets to the point where everyone is a minority and most of the people you know are outside your race. Doesn't mean you have to marry out but the odds obvious go up. Especially true if you go to college.

My wife is Egyptian, I'm proud of that, we've been married over ten years and will be married for the rest of our lives.


What's your ethnicity?
 

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Among the most striking findings was that black men are twice as likely to intermarry as black women — a gender split that reversed for Asian and Pacific Islander Americans and, to researchers, underscores the grip of deeply rooted societal stereotypes.

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All these sistas out here and brehs want to marry into a family that will just tolerate you AT BEST.
 

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I’d stick to speaking about the group you belong to. Who Asian women date or marry doesn’t affect your life.

Don’t understand why this site obsesses over Asian women and what they choose to do with their vaginas.


Exactly they're hideous anyway
 
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Yes they are. I have lifelong c00ns in my family who are even starting to question things. It's black vs everybody and Hisspicics are worse than white people.


What makes you say that?
 

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24% seems a bit high, pawgers and bedbucks everywhere :scust:

Black men marry out twice as much as black women :mjlol:

Y’all negros wanna be white so bad
Ya'll nikkas come in here with the same repetitive angles to dap fish. Black-white marriage is interracial, every interracial marriage isn't Black-White. The article held no detail about racial pairings.
 

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Breh, that utopian community has never existed anywhere. Even where there aren't any racial differences people divide by nationality, even when there aren't national differences people divide by tribe, even where there aren't tribal differences people divide by skin tone or nose shape or whatever other stupid shyt they can find or they just make up gangs to divide themselves by.

My wife was born and raised in the States, but she is under no delusions about racism in the Egyptian community. I've met racist Egyptians. But her entire immediate family is cool (her sister married an Asian dude first so she kinda helped set the stage), and her cousin even went to an HBCU. The people in the family I have to deal with are chill and that's what matters to me.

And you want an interracial community that works out fairly well, try Hawaii. There are tons of mixed-race people there who are accepted alongside everyone else and White people aren't even at the top of the social structure, if anything the Asians have a slight advantage but really its pretty flat. Doesn't mean there's no racism, my best friend's parents there were racist against her dating a Black guy, but Hawaii as a community is as chill as any single-ethnic community I've ever been to and its multiethnic as hell.

My point went over your head. First of all Egyptian isn’t a race it’s a nationality. She can be Arab Egyptian (which would make her of invader stock), mixed Egyptian (African and Arab/Asian/Euro), or Black Egyptian/Nubian which are the real natives to Egypt. My guess is that she is Arab or at the very least mestiza or else you would have mention that she was black. Second, your wife married a black American man raised in America with all the racial conflicts that exist. You really think she is going to be forthcoming with her own racial hang ups or those in her family? North Africans are well known fence riders in African communities. They hop in and out of African identity and have a bad rep in Europe among west Africans. Intermarriage does exist but that doesn’t change the reality.


Marrying someone of another nationality and race doesn’t absolve anyone to havin prejudice. And I foresee this interracial trend, that many people be hopping on thinking they are enlightened and don’t see race will create and is creating its own host of issues.

Hawaii has its own host of problems like I have been repeating the answer for oppressed particularly black groups in general is not effing your way to salvation. But to be equipped socially and economically so as not to see yourself as inferior to others. Mixed race communities on a grand scale don’t bring much to the table for black people other than creating more self hate issues. I am using history and current heavily multiracial countries as my point of reference.

Hawaii is a major Asian Multiracial country. Therefore, isn’t a good example for my point.
 
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