As children, are we obligated to take care of our parents?

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I was listening to this show on 93.5 FM here in NJ (Link Up radio Fatta Diamond and crew) and they was discussing if children should be "obligated" ...keyword obligated ....to take care of their parents just because or should it be a "choice" ...keyword choice....to take care of your parents. Couple people chimed in and was like it says in bible to honor your mother and father blah blah blah and you must take of parents .....other people was like bullshyt because nature has taught us how to take care of our parents meaning you dont see animals taking care of their parents but rather they cast them old nikkas to the side and make room for the young bucks....I was like cotdamn thats cold....


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Yes and No. I feel for myself, that we are obligated to a certain point to provide assistance but not help them, provided they have the capability to do it themselves mind you. Now if they have Dimensia, or like ALS, then we should consider more to helping them fully as I feel they can die more at peace knowing their kin is helping them through the end. However, if they are like how my Grandma is, asking for money for the Casino then nah. She is just using my family as a means to supply her vices, in which I am not obligated at all to do anything.
 

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No child should be forced to take care of their parents but u gotta factor how u were raised too. If u experience lots of physical or mental abuse then fukk em

exactly. Some kids were raised by shytty parents that think that just because they old, the deserve good treatment.
 

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Obligated to assist here and there. My mom is going thru that right now with my grandma. Basically keeping track of every thing like her own personal free nurse. I couldn't deal with that, especially when they have neglected their own health and now you have to suffer for it?
 

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Yeah, your parents raised you, it's your job to do the same when they're no longer able to care for themselves.
exactly. if ur parents were there for u, why woudnt u be there for them?

peep this, almost made a nikka shed a tear when i read it :to:

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My dear girl, the day you see I'm getting old, I ask you to please be patient, but most of all, try to understand what I'm going through. If when we talk, I repeat the same thing a thousand times, don't interrupt to say: "You said the same thing a minute ago"... Just listen, please. Try to remember the times when you were little and I would read the same story night after night until you would fall asleep.

When I don't want to take a bath, don't be mad and don't embarrass me. Remember when I had to run after you making excuses and trying to get you to take a shower when you were just a girl?

When you see how ignorant I am when it comes to new technology, give me the time to learn and don't look at me that way ... remember, honey, I patiently taught you how to do many things like eating appropriately, getting dressed, combing your hair and dealing with life's issues every day... the day you see I'm getting old, I ask you to please be patient, but most of all, try to understand what I'm going through.

If I occasionally lose track of what we're talking about, give me the time to remember, and if I can't, don't be nervous, impatient or arrogant. Just know in your heart that the most important thing for me is to be with you.

And when my old, tired legs don't let me move as quickly as before, give me your hand the same way that I offered mine to you when you first walked. When those days come, don't feel sad... just be with me, and understand me while I get to the end of my life with love. I'll cherish and thank you for the gift of time and joy we shared. With a big smile and the huge love I've always had for you, I just want to say, I love you ... my darling daughter.

Original text in Spanish and photo by Guillermo Peña.
Translation to English by Sergio Cadena
 

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fukk all that nursing home shyt :camby:.

If I have kids I want my parents to help raise them too.
 

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You did not have the choice to enter this world

They chose to have you
It is their obligation to raise YOU

if the child was raised properly and feel grateful then it is a choice to return that to the parents

-if the parents did a horrible job of raising the child then why would there be any expectation to do more than the parent did?


I see alot of bum parents that use their children as their retirement plan and place that pressure on them

fukk that
 
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