The best way I can describe the White Girl Experience is this way:
There's less edge (on the surface) to the entire scope of your relationship with them versus the sistas IMO.
That is a welcoming and subconsciously therapeutic to the average brotha, and can be completely overwhelming for a brotha who grew up in poverty-stricken conditions.
Let me share another #factsonly story...
The other day I'm at the dog park with about 3 other people with dogs. Within 5 minutes of me getting there, the other three people start to walk towards the exit. Then this average-to-cute white chick stops right in front of me and asks me about my dog. After a few minutes chatting she asks me what time it is. I tell her and she goes "Oh well, I guess I can stay longer" (
) and proceeds to unleash her dog and sit right next to me. (
)
The girl was a FREE SPIRIT. While she was not the best looking girl, I found myself attracted to her openess and overall earthy demeanor. The conversation was enlightening for me. She shared things/feelings about herself without me having to ask. The flow of the conversation was relaxing.
This is what I want to see more from the sistas. This white girl wasn't afraid of being who she was. I like that shyt. She was a dynamic personality. You can tell her life wasn't rooted in the latest fashion trends or being afraid to get her hair wet. I was THIS close to asking for the digits but I chose to wait it out until next time.
So when you dudes ask why are black men attracted to 'average' white women, I ask you, what do you even mean by that? Pretty face don't mean pretty personality brehs.