Are there really black dudes who aren't rocking with dark skin girls in 2015?

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you cannot force attraction op. Black women need to let it go...get with black men of other racial background or date other races. Plus you are not going to get honest answers on the subject t, most people are not going to admit this openly and don't like looking like the bad guy. Its like racists who don't like to be called racist whether or not they are.
 

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TBH, I'm a Black male and not attracted to black women. Not sure what's wrong with dudes on this website but me and most of the black dudes I know IRL prefer White girls and Latinas.

Cant hate us for our sexual preferences.
Your circle must consist of some professional tap dancers most of my peoples put black women on the highest pedestal :manny:
 

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Yes, colorism is still rampant in our community. It's been ingrained in us through slavery and Jim Crow. I find women of all shades beautiful, but there is definitely a preference for lighterskinned women on and offline, imho.
 

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Yes, colorism is still rampant in our community. It's been ingrained in us through slavery and Jim Crow. I find women of all shades beautiful, but there is definitely a preference for lighterskinned women on and offline, imho.
Some dudes think if they play contrarian it will hide the blatant reality. However, black women whether dark or light need to stop shaming black men to like a certain segment of black women. A man should not be forced into attraction...

All these respectability politics on the beauty of darkskinned women does not change how people feel inside or behind closed doors. Let it go...

Cater to those who will be interested!!!!
 

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I guess. In general, guys that have their stuff together have a wide range to pick from. Guys that don't, don't.

Applies to every race. There are certainly some stigmas that get stuck on black guys but :yeshrug:

If you pay attention to the internet and haters, black women are the least desired group of all races and genders. A black woman with her stuff together has no trouble finding a dude of any race though.

:yeshrug:

They're in competition with black men for that title...




From the AYI dating app study
"And both black men and black women got the lowest response rates for their respective genders." Source: http://qz.com/149342/the-uncomfortable-racial-preferences-revealed-by-online-dating/


From the OKCupid study
"Asian men, black men and black women got the worst ratings, while Asian women and Latina women fared the best." Source: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/09/12/okcupid-race_n_5811840.html


"The only group that responds regularly to black men and women are one another.” Source: https://www.umass.edu/newsoffice/article/new-research-umass-amherst-sociologists
 
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of course there are...many on the coli. "curly headed goddesses " :lolbron: da evidence. just let em do them is what it is:ehh: i rocks with whatever rocks with me though for 2015 enough :cape:and excuse making, nasty attitude women of all shades
 

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That's crazy we all have our prefrences but too close someone off because of skin color is riducolous...

No Cac's though
 
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