Are there really black dudes who aren't rocking with dark skin girls in 2015?

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Low self-esteem is not even the hald of it...Colorism permeates many aspect of our existence.
Nah it permeates weak excuse making people existence period. Of people realize some going to like you some not you'll be better off esp since we talking moreso from a dating perspective. Weak people just won't and don't deserve to make it sorry.

So attractive black women are not affected by colorism. Really? Ok.
Nope not as much as unattractive ones so you can ok it all day but its truth. When you getting attention you don't worry about this stuff like that. That's real I see people online and IRL mostly unattractive girls on this shyt. I've never saw a chick that look good no matter the shade say that's why she can't get attention never.
 

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What did I say that was colorist? I specifically stated I don't care much about skin color....

A huge part of the attitude I'm talking about is BW's colorism. No contradictions there.

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you explicitly said that you dont like the features dark skinned women have and prefer the features of light skinned and latina women

last I checked skin color is a feature, probably the main feature on a person
 

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Fill us in....I like to hear first hand stories.
Ok. Once I was standing in line at the grocery store to make my purchases. A handsome young black guy behind me complimented me and I thanked him. We exchanged no more words after that. There were two light skinned black girls in front of me, probably sisters. They were both decent looking. One of whom looked back at me and I of course smiled because I'm pretty friendly regardless. She just stared at me then whispered something to the other girl and the other girl burst out in abrupt forced laughter. They finished up and I was next in line. As I'm getting my things rung up I see the other girls grab their bags and I hear one say to the other, "please, I wish she would. I'd take her man any day. Black bytch" and then as they were making their exit, they looked back at me again and laughed once more. Now they could have been talking about anyone, but it really felt like it was aimed at me.
This was one of many examples I've dealt with from people of a lighter hue than myself.
 

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Wow...girl. How do you deal with stuff like this?
I've learned to ignore it. Just like when I hear black men, especially dark skinned black men, tell me the "you're cute for a dark skinned girl" bullshyt. They're just ignorant smh we black women have to be strong off top because the world has been subconsciously against us from the jump.
 

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I've learned to ignore it. Just like when I hear black men, especially dark skinned black men, tell me the "you're cute for a dark skinned girl" bullshyt. They're just ignorant smh we black women have to be strong off top because the world has been subconsciously against us from the jump.

I am big lover of black female beauty and plan on starting a blog/tumblr on it. There are some many brown to darkskinned black women that are beautiful it mind boggles me that this mentality persist.

But I would not blame the light skinned sisters, you have to go to the source of the problem. Although what they did was foul!!!
 

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I am big lover of black female beauty and plan on starting a blog/tumblr on it. There are some many brown to darkskinned black women that are beautiful it mind boggles me that this mentality persist.

But I would not blame the light skinned sisters, you have to go to the source of the problem. Although what they did was foul!!!

I go to black girls killing it for my daily dose of black beauty. Them sisters literally raise my blood pressure.
 

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I never said that women can't be shadist. I said I don't know of many darksinnes women who do it dlto darkskinned men.

Women tend to show favrtoism towards lightskin kids .
This leads to a lot of dark skin kids developing self hate issue.
 
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