April Parker Jones on why Black Men and Women need to only date one another

[iBrowse]

I agree with what @The Coochie Assassin is saying regarding therapy. .

I also appreciate what April said.

 

[The Coochie Assassin]

I agree with what @The Coochie Assassin is saying regarding therapy. .

I also appreciate what April said.

I ain't saying date interracial like what @kayslay responded to me last. IDK where she got that from, I'm all about Black folks dating each other.

But this woman's speech just sounded like a Tyler Perry movie when in reality, Black people aren't their spouse's therapist if you got real trauma and mental issues, you need to seek professional help before you try to get into a serious relationship or there will be issues....sometimes issues so bad you end up creating a broken family and it's too late to save that Black love

 

[Amerikan Melanin]

I love and cherish black women!






























Latinas a close second though.

 

[Ya' Cousin Cleon]

let him pawg in peace G

Nobody shamed anyone.
If you want to advocate interracial relationships so be it.
But thats not what she was talking about.
If youre not building with an ADOS future than are you really building?
I dont have anything against anyone dating who they want but just dont act as if we moving the same and we arent.
Everyone cant be doing whatever they want then calling it a community. Thats how we got here in the first place.
As far as I see it if youre not for Black love you shouldnt even be in this conversation.

just move on over to a thread about interracial dating and discuss your views with them.
Everything isnt for everybody.

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

Not a good reason. That's why it's not working out right now.

You gon have to expound on this... my apologies if I’ve missed a post where your explained this stance

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

I don't think 2 people can heal each other in the way she's saying tho. We've been doing what she's talking about anyways and look at the state of our families. It's time to come together from a different space - not a space of we both got trauma, you gotta fix me and take all the BS I throw at you. I definitely know Black women have been saying they tired of having to fix or build up Black men. shyt ain't working. Therapy is where you get your mind right - we gotta get our youth mentally healthy so they don't grow to be mentally unstable adults who need healing.

That’s actually a fair point that has validity

 

[The ADD]

I know someone is gonna come in here mad about this somehow

 

[ultraflexed]

Not a good reason. That's why it's not working out right now.

The self hate is strong with this one...

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

The self hate is strong with this one...

I think the gist of what he’s saying is that 2 broken people can’t fix one another....

 

[Jasonmask]

I don’t want a biracial daughter who mods racist chat rooms like a certain popular singer

Who

 

[I Really Mean It]

We all we got. We are at war. Starting a family with your oppressor is treasonous. It is that simple.

 

[The Fade]

Who

There’s a couple threads on her. She got a big booty

 

[kayslay]

let him pawg in peace G

I dont care what he do. He’s free to make whatever choice he wants, just dont bytch up when you gotta deal with the consequences.
He need to stay out conversations about BLACK relationships.

 

[Ya' Cousin Cleon]

exactly

I don't think anybody needs to be talked down to for their choices of dating from someone who can't be bothered to date their own.

leave us alone

I dont care what he do. He’s free to make whatever choice he wants, just dont bytch up when you gotta deal with the consequences.
He need to stay out conversations about BLACK relationships.

 

[TNOT]

I think the gist of what he’s saying is that 2 broken people can’t fix one another....

He’s assuming that white women don’t come with their own luggage. Some of it manifesting itself in the reason they choose to date out.