Approaching women at the gym

[philmonroe]

I don't understand angry nikka

Why would I be angry? Internet nikkas always want somebody to be angry. That shyt must make y'all feel important or something if y'all think somebody angry. I just simply spoke on what usually goes on at the gym from my pov and said wish chicks stop using the word creepy out of context whats angry about that?

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

Why would I be angry? Internet nikkas always want somebody to be angry. That shyt must make y'all feel important or something if y'all think somebody angry. I just simply spoke on what usually goes on at the gym from my pov and said wish chicks stop using the word creepy out of context whats angry about that?

Breh your whole post went on a tangent about single woman uniforms, adding extras (the hell does that even mean), telling me the shyt isn't creepy/uncomfortable...you're all over the place. Sorry, but no man is going to tell me, a woman, how to feel about be approached in certain situations....and the whole dress conservative shyt was a reach of epic proportions

 

[philmonroe]

Breh your whole post went on a tangent about single woman uniforms, adding extras (the hell does that even mean), telling me the shyt isn't creepy/uncomfortable...you're all over the place. Sorry, but no man is going to tell me, a woman, how to feel about be approached in certain situations....and the whole dress conservative shyt was a reach of epic proportions

Yeah you're stupid on this issue and in your feelings. I didn't go on anything I explained why I said what I said. I like to be thorough when explaining something esp online where faux smart people try to act like you and say they don't understand simple stuff. Adding extras basically means exaggerating. The single woman uniform part was mainly about what the chick in @PoPo was wearing that's all. I also didn't tell you how to feel. I said I wish girls would stop saying that word out of context. If you think me saying use a word in its right context is telling you how to feel fukk it you got it. I also never said shyt about girls being uncomfortable so stop adding shyt that isn't there. I also never said how you should feel about some dude approaching you. I said if you dress like the chick in popo example don't be surprised if a dude may talk to you but usually they don't they just look.

The dress conservative stuff isn't a reach at all. Majority of dudes that goes up to chicks going to approach the chick in that example first not the frumpy dresser. You think not you on them bath salts and also was just speaking on what I normally see as a difference between single and taken chicks. I also said it not 100% accurate so I don't know what the fukk your tripping on.

TL:DR I explained why I said what I said. Single woman uniform was using Popo example. Never spoke on you or girls being uncomfortable and how you should feel if a dude approached you so stop being a victim when theirs no crime.

 

[timothy_strickland]

Thats why I like working out in a all-male gym

No female distractions/games /attention whoring

Just guys doing their thing effectively. get in and out.
Pure masculine environnement creates the best workouts. No one bothers you, no distractions, its solitary do ya own thing shyt. Also there is order and calm .

My former gym was annoying, looked like a nightclub with all these women attention whoring.

 

[BezO]

Home workout for the win! But...

...and it is creepy...

What makes it so? I hear that from women gettin' holla'd at in all types of situations/locations.

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

Home workout for the win! But...What makes it so? I hear that from women gettin' holla'd at in all types of situations/locations.

in my personal experience, i feel a bit more vulnerable at gym - got workout gear on - and many times not the cute coordinates, i'm talking that free tee they handed out outside the bank , i'm sweaty/don't feel fresh, no makeup, face all red from working out (light skin problems), like, that's really not the spot i'm trying to be cute or appealing, and a dude all up in your space in those circumstances just makes it uncomfortable, like back the fukk up, talk to me when i walk in or walk me to the car after i've cooled down. i'm bent over trying to dead lift and you're looking at my ass?

 

[BezO]

in my personal experience, i feel a bit more vulnerable at gym - got workout gear on - and many times not the cute coordinates, i'm talking that free tee they handed out outside the bank , i'm sweaty/don't feel fresh, no makeup, face all red from working out (light skin problems), like, that's really not the spot i'm trying to be cute or appealing, and a dude all up in your space in those circumstances just makes it uncomfortable, like back the fukk up, talk to me when i walk in or walk me to the car after i've cooled down...

I would think that meant he was more into your natural look, but...

...i'm bent over trying to dead lift and you're looking at my ass?

Ha! I feel you.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

I dont know if I posted in here already but I think its a bad idea. Same with approaching a chick at her job. At the gym Im at most chicks are just there to work out and get the fukk out. Cutting in to holla is just kind of roud and catches them off guard. Plus a lot of em wear headphones. U gotta have a hell of a mouthpiece to warrant her taking off her headphones and stopping her workout. That whole 'joining chick classes' thing is pretty fakkity too. Its really not the time or place for it. Only way I would say to go for it is if a chick is clearly eyeing you down + throwing signals like that, or if you have to share a machine. Other than that

Let me reverse on this. I wrote this first post when I was living in NYC where women have the default expression because nikkas thirst is on high concentrate fleek. Im down south now. High key a lot of these chicks down here damn near beg to be talked to. Running around in full makeup, skin tight brand new clothes, not really doing much exercise wise. Maybe its just the neighborhood I'm in too as there are a lot of second childhood plastic surgery divorcees here. But the way I'm seeing shyt down here its like fukk it. shyt is wide open.

 

[The ADD]

in my personal experience, i feel a bit more vulnerable at gym - got workout gear on - and many times not the cute coordinates, i'm talking that free tee they handed out outside the bank , i'm sweaty/don't feel fresh, no makeup, face all red from working out (light skin problems), like, that's really not the spot i'm trying to be cute or appealing, and a dude all up in your space in those circumstances just makes it uncomfortable, like back the fukk up, talk to me when i walk in or walk me to the car after i've cooled down. i'm bent over trying to dead lift and you're looking at my ass?

 

[USSInsiders]

My gym doesn't have female members of staff, but if there was a girl I liked who worked in a gym , it would depend on the type of gym. If she worked in one of those chain gyms, where loads of women use them, and most of the dudes probably prefer other dudes, I'd have no problem with it, but in a hardcore bodybuilding gym like I go to ? not on your life would I date a girl who worked in one, especially if she wasn't a figure contestant or something so had a reason to work out in one . She would have been run through multiple times in all her holes if the guys I workout with are anything to go by. Most are on steroid cycles that make any half decent woman look fukkable many cheat on their wives/girlfriends, Girls have been brought into my gym and fukked in the showers after closing, on the benches as well over the desks in the office by people who are keyholders, I have a key, but I have yet to christen a bench yet or the shower stall as Iam not married so I have a place to take them. , , we have a bar above the gym, and just the other week a fat barmaid who is almost 60 was giving some married dude much younger than her head apparently on a bench, Any guy who dates a girl who works in a hardcore bodybuilding gym is either a cuckhold or a fukking idiot.

No homo but I wonder how many fakkits are really in my gym.

 

[tater]

I don't think it's weird to talk to females at the gym. No weirder than the grocery store or mall. Each place I'm trying to do something. I did give my number to one guy at the gym, but he got thrown to the bushes the same day. He was coming on way too strong. If I'm actively doing something though please don't interrupt, that's too much. This guy that works at my gym came up to me while I'm running on the treadmill at like 10 MPH . FOH. Wait til you're in between sets or something. Y'all overthink this. If she's interested she'll bite, if not oh well.

 

[Ohene]

I would think that meant he was more into your natural look, but...

breh...dont waste your time trying to spit sense to a woman

they'll complain about dudes being shallow or dogs...and then when a homie tries bagging them while theyre in sweatpants...no makeup etc...essentially showing that he isnt shallow and may be feeling them for reasons other than looks they are insecure and feel "uncomfortable".

No sense with these women.

 

[iBrowse]

Let me reverse on this. I wrote this first post when I was living in NYC where women have the default expression because nikkas thirst is on high concentrate fleek. Im down south now. High key a lot of these chicks down here damn near beg to be talked to. Running around in full makeup, skin tight brand new clothes, not really doing much exercise wise. Maybe its just the neighborhood I'm in too as there are a lot of second childhood plastic surgery divorcees here. But the way I'm seeing shyt down here its like fukk it. shyt is wide open.

"can you show me how to use this ?"

 

[feelosofer]

I think it depends on the region, out in the East Coast, the risk isn't worth the reward, women are combative, and you could step to someones girl at the wrong time, if you do holler at the gym, do it at the shake bar or in the parking lot.

 

[You Win Perfect]

I think it depends on the region, out in the East Coast, the risk isn't worth the reward, women are combative, and you could step to someones girl at the wrong time, if you do holler at the gym, do it at the shake bar or in the parking lot.

i'm on the east coast. if you're a fit dude they will go out of their way to get your attention. at least in my experience. had one chick ask me to lift her up to reach the pull up bar a few days go; even tho there was a bench she could of stepped up on to get up herself. i bagged of course.