and we're in agreement but then we have to ask why. it's not because they're more mature, nuanced, or some higher beings. hell nah
it's simply nature, masculine vs feminine. intrinsic and on our hard drives
Women are allegedly or supposed to be less shallow on looks b/c we traditionally and potentially have had more to lose if shyt goes left simply paying attention to strictly looks in men.
We want someone who looks good. Everyone does. But (sane) women will calibrate accordingly to adjust for other important factors b/c we might be raising a family with somebody so you need to account for personality, stability, protection, and if u can tolerate that person forever or if he is going to irritate u so much that you will have to shank him in his sleep if he talks about “submission” and try hard HOH shyt one more time.
It’s got nothing to do with women being better or mature. It’s got to do with being forced pragmatism due to physiological vulnerabilities. (Please don’t apply this logic to a lot of the unstable bytches hiding out among womankind these days.)
Men are more likely to rationalize fukking toxic chicks with only looks to offer and will also allow themselves to be used by these chicks for money b/c at the base biological level, it’s less likely that she can overtake him in a 1v1. She can be crazy all day long, but punching a whole ass man just ain’t gon end well. Which is why I‘m always the first to tell chicks to keep their hands to themselves and derive so much entertainment from the gender shyt, b/c a lot of it ain’t based in common sense. Like them trannies in wrestling putting chicks in headlocks.
Chicks who take the same risks in mate selection as men are in a lotta cases legit unhinged or touched in the head...even more than most of us women are. Caring only about a man’s looks, disregarding possible sociopathic/psychotic tendencies, risking it all for dikk...that ain’t normative female behavior.
Reckless for men is different than reckless for women. That shyt catches up to men eventually as well but it’s more immediate for women.
Thats also why u are more likely to see a tenured professor risking his career to sexually harass or get tricked by a young chick, than you would a woman. Only chicks with the lowest self-esteem and mental illness would jeopardize the bag for dikk. Because base physical strength and less reproductive responsibility makes a lotta dudes think they invincible in a way that doesn’t translate to reasonable outcomes for women.
Meanwhile men will throw their lives away over some p*ssy, then start again get more and do it again. Betcha bottom dollar, Jeff Bezos gon get married again. Why? Because male physiology and strength makes them more inclined to be riskier and less concerned about characteristics beyond base desire fulfillment in mate selection than women b:c they can’t get pregnant and aren’t physically vulnerable in the same way.
Which is hilarious b/c men are constantly bytching about chicks not choosing nice men even if chicks aren’t physically attracted to them but are the main ones only taking looks into account in mate selection.
Try and push a nice chick whose ugly on a man and see how far u get.
Same dudes who rampage about nice guys finishing last literally don’t even acknowledge chicks who aren’t physically attractive to them no matter HOW nice they are...all while getting mad if women exercise similar preferences.
God I love human beings.
We can be ridiculous sometimes.
Now a lot of dudes are becoming more looks oriented b/c women are now starting to attribute more importance to looks due to increased economic opportunities for women, only to find that women don’t even care all that much about shyt like that anyway which is why a lot of dudes get frustrated by women saying they like dad bods when they did everything they could to become a perfect male specimen only for chicks to be like “it’s aight”.
A lot of chicks think it’s fun to encourage the same insecurities in men through the broadcasting of unreasonable preferences as men have traditionally done to women. That’s why u all of a sudden got all these size queens outchea talking about big dikk and acting like perfect male bodies are the end all be all.
Men do not need to take this shyt to heart, anymore than women do b/c human attraction can be fickle as hell. The last thing I want is a male populace riddled with as many insecurities about their physicality as women have on TOP of the other insecurities they got. Women don’t yet realize they are creating monsters
But I digress.
There’s room at the table for everybody to get in where they fit in b/c life and reproductive impetuous actually WANTS a diverse species.
No matter what ur body type is, you can get play.
We gon be alright.