anyone looking better with age or they have maxed out already? :

Gloxina

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you know how some dudes as kids grew into their looks as young adults.

then some young adults as older men/women finally reach their looks, i don't think people stay unattractive all their lives.

i have a cousin who looked less appealing as a young teen but now he is deontay wilder on these chicks, i mean that because looks just like him.

i think i could still be a richard gere/ george clooney grey foxes. :dame:

there are even women who look better with age ie. martha stwewart, wcw miss elizabeth, pam grier,etc.

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i hope for grey hair all around but i am getting more round my beard, i would like grey all over my head so i can see if i can get some women into grey foxes.

Im 38 and will be 39 next year approaching the final big 40.

i never ate like that, i still think i could qualify for handsomegang# my skin, physique and water retention is ok for someone my age.

but with my age my looks look better if i look like i can offer the woman more stability and social props ie. getting big paper, etc.

i dont have the big paper but i do have some greys :wow:
If you’re an older breh trying to go younger this is where it begins.

Now if you’re a good looking older man with $, like Boris Kodjoe :banderas:, or Denzel when he was in his 40s-mid 50s, you in there 👌🏾

I would do anything for a 45YO Denzel doppelgänger 🤣

If I could find a find a fine 40ishYO I’m OUT 🙌🏾
 

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Time will tell but I think I maxed out
I'm still fine as hell but I was fine as hell AND younger in my prime
It's a different kind of fine I guess with more "character" in my face on some Idris Elba bags under my eyes shyt :mjcry:
I'ma try that Peter Thomas Roth products and see if I can take 15 yrs off
What you know about that lmao
White women had that thing sold out for months because of tiktok
 

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If you’re an older breh trying to go younger this is where it begins.

Now if you’re a good looking older man with $, like Boris Kodjoe :banderas:, or Denzel when he was in his 40s-mid 50s, you in there 👌🏾

I would do anything for a 45YO Denzel doppelgänger 🤣

If I could find a find a fine 40ishYO I’m OUT 🙌🏾

i got a little something saved depends which social circle i look at to see if i am doing average, good or behind.

i obviously cant look at the millionaires circle or the well off, but i do have more pounds than posts i try to keep that balance.

i have been told i looked like a young eddie murphy so that cant be too bad i'll take it :lupe:

i was almost on the verge of growing my hair out and getting the plats with the fade like most guys are doing these days. i cant lie its a good look.

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but i am getting greys so :mjlol:
 

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If you really take care of yourself as a black man,you shouldn't actually show signs of atrophy till after 50.
Your 40s should be your prime.
I'm 42,still can out lift most these young boys,have no greys up top and maybe 6 total in my beard.
I get facials once a month and use vitamin c serum in the day and retinol at night.

Get your sleep,exercise,abstain from alcohol,sugar,red meat and fried foods and you will be out here winning.Drink plenty of water.
A man with a skincare regimen!!! 😯😯😯


I already know you look good.

This actually is all women need to do.
Of course all our extra stuff because we’re women, but doing what you’ve outlined will keep both sexes looking right.


I get thrown off because my family is into health and fitness, so all the guys in my fam in their 40s look like the guys I know in their 30s. But I don’t bump into many older guys who actually remind me of the guys in my family in that regard lol
 

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A man with a skincare regimen!!! 😯😯😯


I already know you look good.

This actually is all women need to do.
Of course all our extra stuff because we’re women, but doing what you’ve outlined will keep both sexes looking right.


I get thrown off because my family is into health and fitness, so all the guys in my fam in their 40s look like the guys I know in their 30s. But I don’t bump into many older guys who actually remind me of the guys in my family in that regard lol

I used to be an esthetician so that def helps with the fact I look ten years younger than I am. my skincare regimen be putting any chick I been with to shame My girl was shocked when she found out how old I actually was because I got the face and body of a young nikka. If I was taller I'd be a dime out here :dame:
 

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I used to be an esthetician so that def helps with the fact I look ten years younger than I am. my skincare regimen be putting any chick I been with to shame My girl was shocked when she found out how old I actually was because I got the face and body of a young nikka. If I was taller I'd be a dime out here :dame:

what is the main ingredient in your diet please? is it fruits and vegetables or something else?
 

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what is the main ingredient in your diet please? its it fruits and vegetables or something else?

My diet type trash right now tbh. I just work out a lot.

I don't really drink, smoke, or eat bullshyt though. no fried greasy foods regularly etc. but its fairly lenient (for me) I'm sure compared to most americans my diet would be considered super clean lol
 

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My diet type trash right now tbh. I just work out a lot.

I don't really drink, smoke, or eat bullshyt though. no fried greasy foods regularly etc. but its fairly lenient (for me) I'm sure compared to most americans my diet would be considered super clean lol

thats cool.

i cant work out a lot because gyms are just a sex club to me but i do walk a lot everywhere and do 50+ push ups a day. so i burn a lot of calories.

its just that maybe the right balanced diet and less sugar i cant really cut out the smoking like that, but great skin you can see 20 feet away there is a glow like you just washed and oiled up.

i heard fish is good for the immune system to do with good skin but anyway yeah any extra tools i for sure would add them to my arsenal. i never bothered with indian clay even though i bought one just got too shook to use it lol.
 

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I used to be an esthetician so that def helps with the fact I look ten years younger than I am. my skincare regimen be putting any chick I been with to shame My girl was shocked when she found out how old I actually was because I got the face and body of a young nikka. If I was taller I'd be a dime out here :dame:
OMG! No wonder. Yea, I’d be intimidated.

Tretinoin has been a game changer for me! I never had acne issues, but I heard it’s great for anti-aging so I asked my Derm for an Rx.

I think she thinks I’m vain because she never recommended it, I just researched and asked for an appointment so I could request it. But 🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

I literally look like I have makeup on when I’m on zoom and I have a bare face. I’m obsessed lmao

Chemical peels are the truth, too.
 
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I remember in either Jr. or Sr. High school, my friends and I, were sitting around snickering about the girls in school that weren't the It girls. My much older cousin overheard us and told us all that we were stupid. "Just wait. That girl that you don't think is so hot now is going to blossom and it's going to be a shock to your system. The girls that you think are hot shyt now, most of them are going to let bad habits waste away their looks."

Years later, came home after I got out the Navy and ran into one of my high school homeys. We were chatting it up and I mentioned to him a classmate of ours that some of the guys used to clown. You know how us dudes do. My homey was like, "Dawg. She got thinker than a MFer. Right? That MFer is fine . . . and the p*ssy is wet too." (with a big ass Koolaid grin).
 
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