Anyone ever spend a weekend to themselves (movies, shop, eat, etc)

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I'm about to go to TO next we imma see som friends there but I've plan to spend one day alone checking out the city
 

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yeah...imma try this movie thing this weekend.

Skyfall or Silver Linings? :mjpls:

And Imma go somewhere to eat (Chipotle :noah:) and leave my phone in the car...hit up Old Navy, Barnes and Noble and some other stores :myman:

I ONLY go to Chipotle dolo. fukk I care about company when I got my favorite fast food meal in front of me. I'm a sociable person, but I really don't need people to enjoy a fast food meal. And I ALWAYS smoke tree then go to Barnes and Noble to kill time. They don't trip at you for loitering, free wi-fi, and you can learn about your current and future interests. But on that same wavelength discussion, it's hard to convince potheads to go to a bookstore.

I went for 3 days, I met up with a friend on one of the days. I saw Michael Moore talk at a Tribeca Film Festival event and saw a movie premiere.

I went to Central Park, MSG, TSq. Actually, I walked from the top of Central Park to TSq (which wasn't that bad).

I don't know it kinda felt like home so I did stuff I'd do here.

I've done this a couple times when I used to live in NYC. I got my favorite smoke spot in the SW corner of Central Park, and some people up in Harlem, and on a free day it's like fukk it I'll walk it. Walked from Houston to Grand Central too (starting with a few smoke spots round LES where them parks are at), got a few smoke spots on the Hudson where I may start my journey to whereever the fukk. The only conversations I need those days are directions and other people also smoking cigs in my vicinity.
 

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Almost every one, for while. Love going to the movies by myself, but I'd like to at least have an option, here and there, that I'm actually interested in. Restaurants and eating out, I do on a regular basis, but I like a lot less, I've been getting take out from nice places, instead of eating alone, I'm just too self conscious for that shyt. Shoes/clothes shopping, I almost always do alone, unless it's a date, which, would be a rarity, I am a pretty deliberate shopper, can't stand loitering around in a store, while people try on clothes for years. I have friends, but you know, how the older you get, friendships are less defined by what you have in common, then how long you've known each other sometimes.
 

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Almost every one, for while. Love going to the movies by myself, but I'd like to at least have an option, here and there, that I'm actually interested in. Restaurants and eating out, I do on a regular basis, but I like a lot less, I've been getting take out from nice places, instead of eating alone, I'm just too self conscious for that shyt. Shoes/clothes shopping, I almost always do alone, unless it's a date, which, would be a rarity, I am a pretty deliberate shopper, can't stand loitering around in a store, while people try on clothes for years. I have friends, but you know, how the older you get, friendships are less defined by what you have in common, then how long you've known each other sometimes.

im confused...explain this.

because for me, my friends and I have less in common, especially the ones I have known the longest :ld:

i hang with my college friends more than my other friends (didnt go to college, got kids, girlfriends, etc)
 

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I went to a club by myself a couple times. not becuase I wanted to be alone, but because I have this cuz that I always go clubbin wit...he always talks sh!t about the type of girls I get wit. I have more then one type...but lately all I been wanting is girls with big t!tties..not lookin for a wifey, just somethin to smash every now and then and he always has somethin to say..so I said fukk it...imma go by myself and do my thing that way I dont have to hear sh!t from anyone...crazy sh!t is every time I went by myself those types of girls were never there

:beli:
 

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That's what I said, more or less, to go a little further, starting at high school, you and your friends have a lot in common, just off position in life, high school students, then everyone starts getting cars, and depending on what path you took in high school, things become a little more defined. For me, it was smoking blunts, selling weed, among other drugs, hustling with your friend for hours at a time, spending like 5 hours in a car. Then, drinking, parties, drugs at night. So, you live a life, very similar to your close friends at that time. None of you want to be at home, you are all trying to get girls, stay out of parental trouble, everyone has more in common.

By now, 27, 25, whatever, people are doing different things. Some friends have kids, some drink/drug still, some are married, some haven't changed, so, my friends and I are still 100, but it's based more on shared experiences, and 10 years of friendship, rather then that we spend all, or a lot of our free time together. My closest friend, I'm not going to hit him up to go to Nordstrom and Gucci, or go to a movie, because it's not his thing, Same way he won't hit me to drink all day, and go to a sports bar or some shyt on Sunday for a Chargers game, cuz that's not me. But, we are still friends. I don't really have casual friends, so I am on my own most of the time, I almost prefer it, but it can be isolating.
 

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that means YOU are boring. if you can't even entertain yourself, then your life is :to: status....

i guess i am. i can only smoke weed and play x-box for a small period of time before i feel like a loser and need to meet up with a broad or something
 

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I been doing that shyt for years. Movies, traveling, clubs, restaurants, everything.

One thing I learned is most people aren't secure enough in themselves to roll dolo. bytches don't do it because, well bytches ain't shyt. But if you a grown ass man afraid to go to a spot solo because you're afraid how someone else MIGHT perceive you're a borderline fakkit
 

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i guess i am. i can only smoke weed and play x-box for a small period of time before i feel like a loser and need to meet up with a broad or something

:sadcam: breh, just figure out some things that sound interesting to you, and go do them. fukk it. life is more than weed, xbox, and hoes.
 

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Ive gone to the movies by myself like twice, never went out to eat by myself, but I do hit up the mall and just walk around solo
 

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Yup, took a trip to NYC by myself for the first time. It was great, I'm planning another one.
I didn't tell my family till I was on the bus heading to NYC hah

:leon: What a rebel

:win: I can't fukking wait til I leave the midwest. My city is wack as fukk.
 

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:leon: What a rebel

:win: I can't fukking wait til I leave the midwest. My city is wack as fukk.

I did the same shyt when I was going to Cuba, I told them a day or so before then peaced out :win:

They're too over-protective of me. haha
 
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