Anyone else have a OPEN relationship with there partner?

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Naw that's not a relationship bruh. I hope your not in love cause she sure as he'll isn't. And I hope you are just providing her with the dikk, anything else and she's using you.

She not using me, even though I do make more money than her. I know her for a long time, like I said before it's that trust between us. I mess with other women on the side as well but, that's a one time thing. She don't mess around with other guys all the time though.

Why not just be single?

Single for what? I'm in love with someone I've know for almost 20 years. We both just like having fun outside of our relationship.
 

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I don't get it, everybody in a relationship is having sex with another person on the outside. Don't act like you haven't kissed another women who gave oral sex to another guy.

Difference is, me and her don't hide it and embrace it. A lot of relationship are really open but don't know it. At the end of the day, she's coming back home to me.

Ok, so you have women on the side of your main chick. So I'm assuming that your chick has other men besides you. I'm I correct on this, I know you say "open", well how open is your relationship with your main chick? Are you guys swingers or you just got chicks that you can hit cross and she got dudes that can hit cross her anytime you guys get ready.
 

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She not using me, even though I do make more money than her. I know her for a long time, like I said before it's that trust between us. I mess with other women on the side as well but, that's a one time thing. She don't mess around with other guys all the time though.



Single for what? I'm in love with someone I've know for almost 20 years. We both just like having fun outside of our relationship.


Theres no saving you then:snoop: she has convinced you that this is the way a relationship is supposed to work and she will continue using you untill a better idiot comes along.
 

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Ok, so you have women on the side of your main chick. So I'm assuming that your chick has other men besides you. I'm I correct on this, I know you say "open", well how open is your relationship with your main chick? Are you guys swingers or you just got chicks that you can hit cross and she got dudes that can hit cross her anytime you guys get ready.

Thats the thing there are no "side" pieces for any of us. It's mostly a 1 time thing then back with my main girl.

We're not swingers, we don't do the threesome thing at least, I don't. She has had one with another girl and a guy because she told me. For example, couple of months ago a friend of hers from Hawaii came to visit her for a couple of days. I know they had sex in the shower because she told me. Did I mind? Not at all. At the end of the day she come's back to me.
 

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Why you share that girl :dwillhuh:

I wouldn't call it that. I call it freedom and not having her tied up with me all day. Don't you guys want your girl or partner to have fun when they're not with you. Alot of you guys are close-minded, everybody is not in a clean relationship. Honesty and trust is something we value above everything.
 
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To each their own but any chick I would call "my girl" wouldn't be out fukking other dudes. There's plenty of fun she can have without me that doesn't involve sex.
 

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I wouldn't call it that. I call it freedom and not having her tied up with me all day. Don't you guys want your girl or partner to have fun when they're not with you. Alot of you guys are close-minded, everybody is not in a clean relationship. Honesty and trust is something we value above everything.
Don't get me wrong. I think open relationships are best for certain contexts. Especially long distances. But you've two been friends since 8, both been hurt by others, finally decide to get together, and now youre deciding to allow her to be with other dudes when you're always an option.

It's just too much risk in that :ufdup:
 
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Here's the thing with having an open relationship. Any one of these other dudes can come up to you and say "I fukked your girl" and completely own you with that comment.
 

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Here's the thing with having an open relationship. Any one of these other dudes can come up to you and say "I fukked your girl" and completely own you with that comment.

Can't someone say the same to you regarding your girlfriend? Some of you guys act like your current girl never sucked or had sex with a guy before you. It wouldn't bother me because I'm open to it.
 

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Can't someone say the same to you regarding your girlfriend? Some of you guys act like your current girl never sucked or had sex with a guy before you. It wouldn't bother me because I'm open to it.

Yeah, she can say that....but she WASN'T MY GIRL AT THE TIME. :smh:

Your girl is suckin off a nikka WHILE SHE'S WITH YOU. Then coming home and kissing you. like: Baby I'm home. :shaq:

:russ:

Thats the thing there are no "side" pieces for any of us. It's mostly a 1 time thing then back with my main girl.

We're not swingers, we don't do the threesome thing at least, I don't. She has had one with another girl and a guy because she told me. For example, couple of months ago a friend of hers from Hawaii came to visit her for a couple of days. I know they had sex in the shower because she told me. Did I mind? Not at all. At the end of the day she come's back to me.

This guys is a troll. :russ: No way this is real.

EVERYONE, lets stop feeding this troll! :heh:
 
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Can't someone say the same to you regarding your girlfriend? Some of you guys act like your current girl never sucked or had sex with a guy before you. It wouldn't bother me because I'm open to it.

Nope, my girl was a virgin :heh:

And for past girlfriends, what they did before I met them is entirely different then what they're doing while we're together. Those are exes, past guys she doesn't talk to anymore. In your situation any dude out there is fair game for her to fukk. And guaranteed all her male "friends" have smashed.
 
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