Anybody NOT have a good relationship with their mother?

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Our personal beliefs, her being super religious and me not being a Christian has really ruined the relationship. :manny:

If it were only that simple with me. :to: I'm Christian but how are you going to :scusthov: at your son for not going to church? Let Jesus take the wheel on that issue and be cordial with your damned children.
 
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Particularly males. I know females tend to hate their moms off and on but it seems to be taboo for a man to not like his mom. But I don't like mine. She did a half assed job of raising me and my brother, would buy weed when there was no food, bad with money etc. etc. now she's living here complaining up a storm. She's finally leaving and she's trying to drag my name through the mud with the rest of my family. Crazy, they have a willing ear for drama but not offering a place to stay rent free. Honestly, I should have let her live under a bridge. Moms aren't always right or good, they just have good PR.

impossible for a black man to not have a good relationship with his moms. she's the only one that raised us. we have no choice.
 
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Nah I don't have those types of issues. Sometimes i'd :stopitslime: at the way she treated my dad during some of the times where they were having issues but for the most part we've always had an understanding. I will say that we have damn near opposite personalities. Even still she got blessed this weekend on mothers day :blessed:
 

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yep. she's an emotional manipulator, a liar and a thief who's screwed over everyone who's ever been close to her, including my sisters and my grandmother.

I could tell you a million stories.

Matter of fact, the breaking point in my last relationship was the fact that I realized she started reminding me of my mom.
 

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This is some real shyt right here. There's no winning with a person like that. Just be glad you don't have to live with her.
It is real shyt, its my life breh :heh: Jokes aside, there is no winning. My dad is the sweetest guy with biggest heart and she always gives him shyt for no reason. She can be in a good mood, next second flip out bang cabinet doors, etc. Real nutjob shyt. I feel bad for him everytime I talk to him, its some other story with her. That was one of the reasons I didnt move back to NYC after getting divorced. I knew I'd have to live with them for a bit before I got back on my feet. And there was no way I was going to do that. So I stayed in Philly and struggled for a bit rather than deal with her.
 

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impossible for a black man to not have a good relationship with his moms. she's the only one that raised us. we have no choice.

I have a choice breh. I've given out a ton of passes, there are no more left to give.
 

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My mother was physically, mentally, emotionally abusive growing up. Instead of lifting me up she would tear me down. She tore my family apart, didnt grow up with my sister for a good part of my youth cause she lived with cousins. Dad was gonna divorce but there was a good chance I wouldnt went to her fulltime and he didnt want to chance that, so stuck through it. He's still miserable to this day. Moved out at 18 because of her and didnt talk for years. Began to talk when I got engaged, and admitted her parenting faults when I got divorced. Now we talk but after 30 mins, I cant stand her. Thinks she knows it all and loves to argue for the sake of arguing. She can be completely wrong and will argue to the death. You have one difference of opinion and she feels "attacked" Everyone in the family believes she has a chemical imbalance but she wont admit it or seek help. Even her own mother says she has ssues. So yeah, I basically just tolerate her. I've even questioned myself, and wondered if I would shed a tear when her time comes. Honestly I dont know. On the other hand, when my dad passes I know I'll be a mess.

and ALL of this.
 

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I had a terrible relationship with my mom. I didn't even speak to her for 8 straight years. She was a horrible drunk and did unforgivable things.

I forgave her (but I'm not forgetting), but we are only "friends" right now. I speak to her about 3 times a year (Christmas, Mother's Day, and my Birthday). We will never have that mother-son bond again. She ruined it, and she knows it. She has apologized, but the damage has been done :to: At least we don't hate each other anymore either.

I'm not on good terms with my father either. That muthafukka basically abandoned me. I talk to him on the phone more though. Maybe once every couple of months.

I don't sweat it though. Having bad parents happens sometimes. I learned how not to act. I'm still scared to be a parent though. Will I repeat the same errors? :lupe:
 

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you nikkas hate your moms? :dahell:...damn your moms really has to be a slime bucket for a nikka to hate on his moms...i love my moms...i got friends who tell my mom they wish she was their mother...this hatred you guys have for your moms explains a lot on why you guys dog out females on here...
 
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