Anybody NOT have a good relationship with their mother?

[TheIsleofMan]

My mother is crazy but so am I I blame her for everything but I still love her































Most of the time

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

That's just you. I help adults all the time without any repercussions. I help my parents all the time without repercussions.

Consider yourself lucky.

 

[DaRealness]

I want a girl who will act like my mom, cook, clean, fukk me in every night read me bedtime stories

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

My mother was physically, mentally, emotionally abusive growing up. Instead of lifting me up she would tear me down. She tore my family apart, didnt grow up with my sister for a good part of my youth cause she lived with cousins. Dad was gonna divorce but there was a good chance I wouldnt went to her fulltime and he didnt want to chance that, so stuck through it. He's still miserable to this day. Moved out at 18 because of her and didnt talk for years. Began to talk when I got engaged, and admitted her parenting faults when I got divorced. Now we talk but after 30 mins, I cant stand her. Thinks she knows it all and loves to argue for the sake of arguing. She can be completely wrong and will argue to the death. You have one difference of opinion and she feels "attacked" Everyone in the family believes she has a chemical imbalance but she wont admit it or seek help. Even her own mother says she has ssues. So yeah, I basically just tolerate her. I've even questioned myself, and wondered if I would shed a tear when her time comes. Honestly I dont know. On the other hand, when my dad passes I know I'll be a mess.

This is some real shyt right here. There's no winning with a person like that. Just be glad you don't have to live with her.

 

[ALWTHEGOGETTA]

Man I love my mom. Don't understand how a male could hate the person that birthed them. I don't have any kind respect for a guy that does not love his mom.

 

[DaddyTime]

Breh, if you can't help your mother without repercussions, the fukk can you expect from the rest of the world?

That's just you. I help adults all the time without any repercussions. I help my parents all the time without repercussions.

I know what you're both getting at and y'all both have points.

I'ma just say this, if someone's mentality is really warped, no way you can hold their hand through it, a lot of things need to be figured out themselves, you'll only end up getting negative repercussions from trying to force change.

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

Man I love my mom. Don't understand how a male could hate the person birthed them. I don't have any kind respect for a guy that does not love his mom.

Do you know how many people hate their dads? So because a woman has a child she is infallible? Why all the fukking hate for single mothers then? They should be a prized commodity.

 

[kp404]

I know what you're both getting at and y'all both have points.

I'ma just say this, if someone's mentality is really warped, no way you can hold their hand through it, a lot of things need to be figured out themselves, you'll only end up getting negative repercussions from trying to force change.

I agree with this, and my point was to say helping ANY adult will lead to negativity is a reach...yes, some adults have fukked up mentalities and personalities, but we cannot homogenize things like that is my point.

 

[Mr. Pink]

Damn brehs. A couple of real sad stories here.

My mother has a bit of a nagging streak and sometimes gets on her high horse about religion but she raised me very well and I never once doubted that she loved me or that she would do anything for me.

I've always taken her for granted to the point where it never occured to me that other people have Livia Soprano type of mothers.

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

I know what you're both getting at and y'all both have points.

I'ma just say this, if someone's mentality is really warped, no way you can hold their hand through it, a lot of things need to be figured out themselves, you'll only end up getting negative repercussions from trying to force change.

She thinks she'll be so happy when she moves away but she wasn't happy by herself. She JUST started taking care of her own bills until I get a second job and I guess that is too much for her. I guess she needs a further dose of harsh realities.

 

[Illuminatos]

Our personal beliefs, her being super religious and me not being a Christian has really ruined the relationship.

 

[DaddyTime]

She thinks she'll be so happy when she moves away but she wasn't happy by herself. She JUST started taking care of her own bills until I get a second job and I guess that is too much for her. I guess she needs a further dose of harsh realities.

The pursuit of happiness is the eternal undoing of happiness.

You got to find it within you, because you have little control over everything in the universe.

 

[MAKAVELI25]

Damn brehs. A couple of real sad stories here.

My mother has a bit of a nagging streak and sometimes gets on her high horse about religion but she raised me very well and I never once doubted that she loved me or that she would do anything for me.

Wow, sums up my relationship with my mother perfectly

 

[DaddyTime]

Our personal beliefs, her being a super religious and me not being a Christian has really ruined the relationship.

I dislike this so much
Man made religion over someone you gave birth to is to me

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

Damn brehs. A couple of real sad stories here.

My mother has a bit of a nagging streak and sometimes gets on her high horse about religion but she raised me very well and I never once doubted that she loved me or that she would do anything for me.

I've always taken her for granted to the point where it never occured to me that other people have Livia Soprano type of mothers.

My mom means well but that entitlement coupled with the persecution complex isn't a good look. She has my aunt thinking I'm going to do harm to her or something yet she's sitting on the couch content watching cable. I guess man.