Anybody NOT have a good relationship with their mother?

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

Particularly males. I know females tend to hate their moms off and on but it seems to be taboo for a man to not like his mom. But I don't like mine. She did a half assed job of raising me and my brother, would buy weed when there was no food, bad with money etc. etc. now she's living here complaining up a storm. She's finally leaving and she's trying to drag my name through the mud with the rest of my family. Crazy, they have a willing ear for drama but not offering a place to stay rent free. Honestly, I should have let her live under a bridge. Moms aren't always right or good, they just have good PR.

 

[HalfwayHandsome]

no. Aint a woman alive that can take my mothers place.

 

[Meadow]

My mother's my nikka.

 

[Spoonz]

Nope and it generally takes a lot for a male to hate his mother

 

[Capo Dei Capi]

I don't trust mine.

 

[BocaRear]

no. Aint a woman alive that can take my mothers place.

 

[IAmGettingAMailOrderBride]

I want a girl who will act like my mom, cook, clean, tuck me in every night read me bedtime stories

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

Nope and it generally takes a lot for a male to hate his mother

I don't hate her but she's not my favorite person in the world. A mother's sense of entitlement can be crazy. That's fine when they are across the country but living in the same house? There's really no good that can come from helping an adult, no matter who they are.

 

[kp404]

There's really no good that can come from helping an adult, no matter who they are.

:martinwtf:I'll take this quote as you relating it to your mother and not the actual human race

 

[BocaRear]

I want a girl who will act like my mom, cook, clean, fukk me in every night read me bedtime stories

 

[Dayco23]

I don't hate mine but she hates me

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

:martinwtf:I'll take this quote as you relating it to your mother and not the actual human race

Breh, if you can't help your mother without repercussions, the fukk can you expect from the rest of the world?

 

[kp404]

Breh, if you can't help your mother without repercussions, the fukk can you expect from the rest of the world?

That's just you. I help adults all the time without any repercussions. I help my parents all the time without repercussions.

 

[Commander in Chiefin]

My mother was physically, mentally, emotionally abusive growing up. Instead of lifting me up she would tear me down. She tore my family apart, didnt grow up with my sister for a good part of my youth cause she lived with cousins. Dad was gonna divorce but there was a good chance I would've went to her fulltime and he didnt want to chance that, so stuck through it. He's still miserable to this day. Moved out at 18 because of her and didnt talk for years. Began to talk when I got engaged, and admitted her parenting faults when I got divorced. Now we talk but after 30 mins, I cant stand her. Thinks she knows it all and loves to argue for the sake of arguing. She can be completely wrong and will argue to the death. You have one difference of opinion and she feels "attacked" Everyone in the family believes she has a chemical imbalance but she wont admit it or seek help. Even her own mother says she has ssues. So yeah, I basically just tolerate her. I've even questioned myself, and wondered if I would shed a tear when her time comes. Honestly I dont know. On the other hand, when my dad passes I know I'll be a mess.

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

I don't hate mine but she hates me

Guess that's the situation I'm in. She'd rather hate me than admit she was a less than stellar parent. I'm not even saying she's THE WORST, but she doesn't take responsibility for anything. So because I'm alive at 29 you're mother of the year? Thanks, but I think I MAY have contributed a little something to that too.