Anybody NOT have a good relationship with their mother?

[Primetime21]

What is your soft ass going to do?

I will come up to NYC and fukk you in the ass all bloody

you got it...

 

[Just like bruddas]

My mom pretty much works to stay broke and my family suffered because of it. My father hasn't returned to work full time yet and their maintaining a good pace with money until she buys another new car. We all just looked at her like "wtf" you can't be serious. Now she's asking me to pay more rent ( I pay 400 a month already) just to make sure the fam isn't broke due to another C - note. Been like this since forever, growing up its been times we didnt eat until my dad got paid because she would blow the money on card games or clothes. She would pretty much blame, yell and hit us for eating food because she thought it was too much, even though it was half a serving of 1 bowl. Don't even get me started on her rants about us being the reason she's not rich like her family that lives off SSI and welfare and credit card scams. Im moving out this summer along with my younger brother and we gonna see how shyt get real really fast when you have 2 incomes gone.


Thank god I had my father even though he wasn't shyt at times either...black parents still have a slave mentally when it comes to raising kids

 

[Just like bruddas]

I think its safe to say that many of us didnt wish for rich wealthy parents...just some responsible ones that wouldnt use your name for bills and fukk up your credit

 

[AITheAnswerAI]

Jesus, dude, how are your relationships with women? I can't imagine going through all that as a kid and having normal romantic relationships

No issues really. The only thing is that if I notice any noncooperation or disrespect, i'm quick to delete the number and move on. However, I see that as being more realistic, compared to other dudes who hang on and turn into simps.

 

[Dak Pickscott]

gotta turn my own mama into the police

 

[Sccit]

I competely cut my mother and father out of my life.

My parents got divorced when I was 4. They used to manipulate me against eachother. I'm sure others who've gone through divorce understand that. My father was a drunk, a drug addict an degenerate. Used to beat me, leave mealone in trap houses surrounded by junkies. When I was 12, an I can still remember every detail of this, my mother sat me down and handed me a newspaper article. It was about a woman being murdered and they had a suspect in custody. She asked me who i thought it was. My heart sank. I sheepishly said my dad? and she nodded. He was convicted and I havent spoken to him since.

For a long while I loved my mother with everything I had, no matter how withdrawn I had become. Even though that love was because she simply wasn't my father.

From ages 13-19 my mother remarried 3 times. Each one more abusive. She was so busytrying to find her own happiness she pretty much forgot I existed. Of course, I had been kicked out at 17 because I stomped out one of her husbands. She kicked me out that same day. She litrally chose that guy over me.

We kept a strained relationship going. She would degrade me every time we talked, tell me I'm just like my father and I'd end up just like him. Say whatever she could to hurt me. Eventually I gave up pretending she had ever been a good person. But, at point I needed help like most people do. I had nowhere to live. I moved in with her. After two weeks she didnt wan me there so she told me to leave but that I had to leave my stuff as payment for staying with her. I smashed in my tv with my bare and until blood andelectronics were littered everywhere. I slept outside for a few weeks until I gota hold of someone who coud help me. That was the last time I spoke to her.

To this day I have trouble maintaining arelationship. Women often become too frustrated with my inabilty to be open.

DAMN J, LIKE THAT?


ANY IMPROVEMENTS SINCE THEN??

 

[Yehuda]

I have a good relationship with my mother now but I don't live by this "my mom's always right she's untouchable and I can never contest her" shyt y'all be on.

 

[Jasmine20]

My mother was physically, mentally, emotionally abusive growing up. Instead of lifting me up she would tear me down. She tore my family apart, didnt grow up with my sister for a good part of my youth cause she lived with cousins. Dad was gonna divorce but there was a good chance I would've went to her fulltime and he didnt want to chance that, so stuck through it. He's still miserable to this day. Moved out at 18 because of her and didnt talk for years. Began to talk when I got engaged, and admitted her parenting faults when I got divorced. Now we talk but after 30 mins, I cant stand her. Thinks she knows it all and loves to argue for the sake of arguing. She can be completely wrong and will argue to the death. You have one difference of opinion and she feels "attacked" Everyone in the family believes she has a chemical imbalance but she wont admit it or seek help. Even her own mother says she has ssues. So yeah, I basically just tolerate her. I've even questioned myself, and wondered if I would shed a tear when her time comes. Honestly I dont know. On the other hand, when my dad passes I know I'll be a mess.

Its fukked up but this is some real shyt

 

[The5thLetter]

A woman I know recently lost her son. He was shot and on his death bed he told her he hated her and she's never been anything but a crackhead. Imagine the kind of pain he experienced to say that on his death bed

 

[Dak Pickscott]

gotta turn my own mama into the police

brehs

the same night i posted this my pops died later that night in the hospital after a long fight with diabetes

although me and my mama have had our differences i've since just been thankful that I still have her

honor thy mother & father brehs

 

[Jammer22]

Love mine, but she's harmfully religious,too naive, and I've learned to not trust her with money. Worked most of her life without saving much, and she's an overworked nurse.
She tries her best though.

The fukked up part is that for me and my little sister she's been working so long for both of our lives that we really hardly know her.

She's kind of a very good friend of the family?
The most time me and my sister spent with her was church before she started night shift and then slept from exhaustion for most of the day.

Her health is still suffering for it.

Anyway, mMy dad is both mother and father.
He was a stay at home Dad, cause if my Mom had raised me and my sister
And how smart he is and how much he sacrificed to let her get her career on.
I still remember how he used to teach us before kindergarten (teaching me how to read and do math every other day) to helping us with my homework from elementary to High school and attending all the after school programs, coming to parent teacher conferences, taking me and my little sis to the park all the time...