I mean im not necessarily scared of it just don't see the point. And i hate when dudes take the "running assumption" that you just have to commit.. like what if i see something in her that id like to avoid on that level? she might just be a decent level 2 no need to go to level 3-4. as i get older dawg, i look back on the girls I've been with and honestly alot of them i should've left earlier not stayed longer. I got a homeboy just broke up with his girl after having a whole kid not even a year old.. he really just wanted to fukk her raw but now u fukking up multiple lives with your carelessness.
most things arent meant to be forever. i still hold out hope for that one girl but im only doing it once so not trying to run it up here and there taking unnecessary risks.