Kilgore Trout
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My mom treated me better my dad treated my sister better.
Anybody ever expirence a parent showing favoritism
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breh. A one year old eating a snickers bah? 
breh. A one year old eating a snickers bah? 
SuburbanPimp
Giving game to lames since the 90s
Thats a messed up scenario but being a parent of 2 kids and one 7y/o at 21 is not an ideal siutuation. At that age I really wouldn't expect her to be a good parent to be honest.
My parents showed slight favoritism towards my sister because she was a straight A student, was in the student council, cheerleader and all that good stuff....So there whenever she wanted to go somewhere or wanted soemthing she got it....
AT the time I felt like it was favoritism, but once I got older I understood. If you do the right things in school and around the house, You get rewarded.... When you bullshytting in school, not cleaning around the house and doing those things you don't
My parents showed slight favoritism towards my sister because she was a straight A student, was in the student council, cheerleader and all that good stuff....So there whenever she wanted to go somewhere or wanted soemthing she got it....
AT the time I felt like it was favoritism, but once I got older I understood. If you do the right things in school and around the house, You get rewarded.... When you bullshytting in school, not cleaning around the house and doing those things you don't
im the oldest in a dominican household. the oldest always get shytted on lol. my little brother's got away with murder growing up and i wasnt even allowed to dress how i wanted.
for example, back when i was in high school, i wanted to go out on a friday night to watch my high school football team play the rivals at the school. it was a 7 oclock game but my mom would not let me go for shyt even tho i was 16. when my baby bro was 14, little nikka used to come home from parties at 4am
but nah ur situation is fukked up. i would call cps if i got custody but not to put her in foster care.
for example, back when i was in high school, i wanted to go out on a friday night to watch my high school football team play the rivals at the school. it was a 7 oclock game but my mom would not let me go for shyt even tho i was 16. when my baby bro was 14, little nikka used to come home from parties at 4am
but nah ur situation is fukked up. i would call cps if i got custody but not to put her in foster care.
She hates the daughter for ruining her childhood.
She'll never accept that shes the one who lay on her back and fukked without a condom then didn't get an abortion. The 7 year old didnt ask to be born.
She's diverting all her fukk ups in life on that girl.
Honestly unless you do some family intervention or get someone else to care for your niece it will be a typical story of teen mum gives birth to daughter and hates her, daughter grows up with issues.
Sad.
She'll never accept that shes the one who lay on her back and fukked without a condom then didn't get an abortion. The 7 year old didnt ask to be born.
She's diverting all her fukk ups in life on that girl.
Honestly unless you do some family intervention or get someone else to care for your niece it will be a typical story of teen mum gives birth to daughter and hates her, daughter grows up with issues.
Sad.
Blackout
just your usual nerdy brotha
My mother showed favoritism toward my younger sister because she reminded her of herself when she was younger.
It was a pain in the ass growing up with that going on sojce ky younger sister took advantage of it and its one of the main reason me and my younger sister never got along until we were practically adults.
My mother essentially crated a rift between me and my sister.
It was a pain in the ass growing up with that going on sojce ky younger sister took advantage of it and its one of the main reason me and my younger sister never got along until we were practically adults.
My mother essentially crated a rift between me and my sister.
Jone2three45
Supporter
What a sad situation,
Can you take her in?
Can you take her in?
MewTwo
Freeing Pokemon From Their Masters Since 1996
My particular situation is sorta reverse. My mom always preferred me over my brother because I had fairer skin. My mom even convinced my brother to use skin bleaching products. Anyway, being preferred in my case was actually a bad thing since my mom was a religious psycho who forced me to participate in various voodoo rituals against my will. She was insanely overprotective and extremely paranoid -- whenever I coughed, sneezed, stretch, had a common cold, used the bathroom too long -- she would always assumed that someone put a 'hex' on me and that 'evil spirits' were trying to possess me.
Her bizarre/extreme parenting is the source of my depressing (which extended into my adult life). I rarely talk about it with other people because they either assume 1) that I'm lying, 2) exaggerating, or 3) quick to defend my mother and dismiss her behavior as normal motherly love. She's very religious and superstitious and believes in these things. She always assumes that I'm sick and would force feed me prescription medication even when I'm in perfect health.
Her bizarre/extreme parenting is the source of my depressing (which extended into my adult life). I rarely talk about it with other people because they either assume 1) that I'm lying, 2) exaggerating, or 3) quick to defend my mother and dismiss her behavior as normal motherly love. She's very religious and superstitious and believes in these things. She always assumes that I'm sick and would force feed me prescription medication even when I'm in perfect health.
BantuKnotz99
Pro
That sounds like some 4 colored girls type shyt, I can't take her in at the moment because I'm honestly not fit at the moment .. It does sound like she's blaming my niece for her fukk ups
I would quite literally slap the shyt out of my sister if that shyt was going on. My mother almost fought my uncle for suggesting that she preferred me to my brother and sister.
It wasn't true either as I know. But yeah, you need to find someone that can take care of the little girl. Especially if she kinda depends on your parents, which judging by her situation she might then she can't really threaten to let them stop seeing her unless she wants a struggle.
It wasn't true either as I know. But yeah, you need to find someone that can take care of the little girl. Especially if she kinda depends on your parents, which judging by her situation she might then she can't really threaten to let them stop seeing her unless she wants a struggle.
*L*E*G*A*C*Y*
Done.
I grew up in a family of women and Iwas the only guy other than my dad in my family. Middle child too.
I have two sisters (one younger & older) and they showed my older sister so much favoritism it was sickening. My dad was a doctor and wanted us to follow the same path. When I told him I cared more about art, music, and djing more than becoming a doctor, he never got over it. While my parents threw out my comic book collection, action figures, and tried to throw out my skateboards, they showered my older sister with praise, bought her anything she wanted, paid for her education, and basically kissed her ass. Even though I came up in a relatively well to do family, I've had more jobs out of ANY of my siblings cause I knew if I wanted what I wanted in my life, I would have to work for it.
Today, I live in New York City and have been supporting myself and living on my own since the age of 18. My Older sister will be 32 this year, has been living at home since dropping out of pre-med at Columbia University in 2005 and hasn't had a job in over five years.
I have two sisters (one younger & older) and they showed my older sister so much favoritism it was sickening. My dad was a doctor and wanted us to follow the same path. When I told him I cared more about art, music, and djing more than becoming a doctor, he never got over it. While my parents threw out my comic book collection, action figures, and tried to throw out my skateboards, they showered my older sister with praise, bought her anything she wanted, paid for her education, and basically kissed her ass. Even though I came up in a relatively well to do family, I've had more jobs out of ANY of my siblings cause I knew if I wanted what I wanted in my life, I would have to work for it.
Today, I live in New York City and have been supporting myself and living on my own since the age of 18. My Older sister will be 32 this year, has been living at home since dropping out of pre-med at Columbia University in 2005 and hasn't had a job in over five years.
MewTwo
Freeing Pokemon From Their Masters Since 1996
What about your younger sister?
*L*E*G*A*C*Y*
Done.
She's at M.I.T. now and is studying to become an Engineer. She's one of my favorite people though, and I've always been a big supporter of hers.
Elle Driver
Veteran
This is like a vicious cycle waiting to happen, I wouldn't suggest intervening though. It will bring more bad than good. What baffles me is the fact that she doesn't work (and I assume she's able bodied and a functioning human being) and she splurges like crazy. No sense of finances whatsoever, shyt is going to be generational I can already tell. That little girl needs a loving home, and stat, cause she will grow up with a lot of psychological damage and carry on the torch.
ya i did in my fam with my mom. sad thing bout it was it only got squashed bout 2 yrs ago but it wasnt till june she realize how fukked up it was and im bout too be 30 this year. whats even more sad was she knew it when i called her out on it several times throughout the years and she told me this that it wasnt her intention i was the good kid good grades stayed out of trouble and even as adult same way.
i honestly think though cuz of my real dad cheating on her and then they got divorce when i was i think in 1st grade and i kind of resemble him it turned out that way but i could be wrong
what made her realize it most was once we had a serious talk cuz i was feeling really sick and she can see the pain and what it was doing too me and a certain incident brought back memories that made her break down and cry too let it all out
i honestly think though cuz of my real dad cheating on her and then they got divorce when i was i think in 1st grade and i kind of resemble him it turned out that way but i could be wrong
what made her realize it most was once we had a serious talk cuz i was feeling really sick and she can see the pain and what it was doing too me and a certain incident brought back memories that made her break down and cry too let it all out