Anybody ever expirence a parent showing favoritism

[BantuKnotz99]

Man the shyt is fukked up... Ima give a brief story my sister has two kids, two baby daddies.. My niece is 7 and my lil nephew just turned 1,my sister is in a fukked up marriage with the 1 year olds father, she's 21 and he's 23 .. They both cheat on each other and the husband tries to commit himself to a mental institution on a daily. My nieces father is no where to be seen ok. My sister treats my niece like shyt but treats my nephews like he's a saint.







I have a lot of examples first my niece has her own room but gets scared a lot and ask to sleep in the room with her mom..my sister is in the room layed up with her husband and son and makes my niece sleep on the bottom of the bed.



She slammed the door on my nieces foot one time and whips her on a daily basis. My nephew eats a snicker bar and leaves it on the table... My niece leaves a Hersey kiss on the table and gets cussed out. It's sooo much shyt mane.




Also my grandparents buys my niece school cloths,Christmas gifts and everything so my sis doesn't because she doesn't have a job but my sis takes her utility check and buys food with it... Ex my sis got in a car wreck.. Got a settlement and instead of buying my niece cloths for school she buys my lil nephew shoes because his birthday just passed and copped a s4 which was $739.


Priorities all fukked up.. My fam wants to call CPS but they are scared.

 

[MAKAVELI25]

Call child services, nikka. That little girl is 7, she shoudn't have to suffer because your sister is a bytch (no offense) . Your sister is raising a woman who will have no self worth because her most important source of unconditional love (the mother) doesn't show it to her. Either take in the girl yourself, call child services, or be prepared to have a niece with a very strong chance of being a stripper/whore/drug addict etc.

 

[ugksam]

women do this shyt all the time, they are mad at their ex who left them so they take it out on the kid

 

[BantuKnotz99]

Call child servieces, nikka. That little girl is 7, she shoudn't have to suffer because your sister is a bytch (no offense)

Breh I want to sooooo bad but idk what the outcome would be,my grandmother wants to and mom ..aunts as well but idk. That shyt makes me sooo mad. It's like she's tryna hold on to her fukked up marriage which includes his son.. Kinda like she wants that perfect family except her daughter because her father isn't there

 

[marcuz]

unless the relatives are trying to get parental custody, putting the girl in foster care might be the worst mistake they make.

 

[Lana Kane]

My mom and dad got remarried and I was thrown to the bushes.
When I was living with my mom and her husband, my sister would purposely do shyt so I can get in trouble and when she did something .. not even a peep

 

[BantuKnotz99]

It's like my niece can't even say nothing to her lil brother without getting yelled at or smacked

women do this shyt all the time, they are mad at their ex who left them so they take it out on the kid

ike

 

[swag2011]

Have your parents or grandparents talked to her about that?

 

[BantuKnotz99]

That's the fear,my grandparents are old and my mom is sick alot..I also stay a hour n some change away. I love my nieces and nephew and hold no resentment.. Kinda like my sis is treating my niece like my mom used to treat her

unless the relatives are trying to get parental custody, putting the girl in foster care might be the worst mistake they make.

 

[BantuKnotz99]

Have your parents or grandparents talked to her about that?

my mom tries to but it goes in vain,sometimes my mom doesn't want to say anything in fear of my sister not letting my mom see her grand kids.. My sister always throws that in her face. My grandmother was going to call CPS but froze up at the last minute

 

[Kalik]

Sister 21, niece 7..... Your parents should have raised that kid as their own breh.


and having her daughter not lay in the bed with her 23 year old "mental institution type" husband, is actually a good thing, IMO

 

[BantuKnotz99]

Sister 21, niece 7..... Your parents should have raised that kid as their own breh.


and having her daughter not lay in the bed with her 23 year old "mental institution type" husband, is actually a good thing, IMO

Tha nikka is a bytch I would've been put hands on him but he's famous for pressing charges...my mom and grandparents basically raise my niece

 

[Kalik]

my mom and grandparents basically raise my niece

Yeah, I think thats the issue, she had the girl child too young and didnt bond with her. Her son and her, prolly bonded and close, living with his daddy and all. It's like its a family, and then the daughter is a third wheel to their family vibe.

If they both young and cheating, it's best to keep your niece away from that situation. 7 year old is very impressionable.

 

[BantuKnotz99]

Yeah, I think thats the issue, she had the girl child too young and didnt bond with her. Her son and her, prolly bonded and close, living with his daddy and all. It's like its a family, and then the daughter is a third wheel to their family vibe.

If they both young and cheating, it's best to keep your niece away from that situation. 7 year old is very impressionable.

Exactly what I thought,it's sad tho my niece ain't ask for none of this.and the father comes n goes ,he ain't a permanent stable in the household. I sometimes wonder does she see what she is doing and does in her mind does she deem the bullshyt she does as acceptable

 

[MewTwo]

Man the shyt is fukked up... Ima give a brief story my sister has two kids, two baby daddies.. My niece is 7 and my lil nephew just turned 1,my sister is in a fukked up marriage with the 1 year olds father, she's 21 and he's 23 .. They both cheat on each other and the husband tries to commit himself to a mental institution on a daily. My nieces father is no where to be seen ok. My sister treats my niece like shyt but treats my nephews like he's a saint.

There lies the problem. Don't you think that's a little too early to get married and have kids? She got pregnant at 15 so she's clearly not very intelligent and a person of poor character (no offense).

Also I strongly advise against calling child services. The last thing you need is the government to be involved in family issues. Have the niece live with some relative (you, the grand mother, somebody). That is, I think, preferred than being tossed around in the foster care system.