I think this is how you would do it. I don't know how to post images.
If you have the triangle
A B
C D
and a diagonal from AD and BC.
You know that AB = CD and AC = BD because it's a rectangle
Also using that Z angle theorem (can't remember what its called where you have two parallel lines and the angle going through it).. you know that <CDA = < DAB
<DCB = < CBA
Finally the last angle of each is a right angle so all the angles are equal and you have two sides are equal. Isn't that enough to show that they are congruent?