Any brehs or brehettes married or date a unattractive/average person?

[The Mad Titan]

Some interesting answers


Maybe I'm crazy, but I know an unattractive, average and attractive person when I see them. It sounds like most people would answer yes, based on what I'm hearing.


I was mostly wondering about looks strictly. I should have put that in the OP.


Personality can make the prettiest person ugly and the most unattractive person beautiful.

 

[Vice Queen]

Yes

 

[pimpineasy]

i trust my girl breh that to me makes her hella attractive to me


she has access to my food, where i lay, my monies etc

 

[Frump]

I don't understand how people can be physically unattractive to you but if they have a cool personality that can make them attractive. A cool person without physical attraction is called a friend

Doesn't mean in only attracted to hot women but if the thought of making out or getting naked with a women grosses me out at first sight I don't care how cool she is then isn't gonna make me attracted to her

 

[wickedsm]

too subjective to say.
my husband is very attractive to me, but i like big men
for women who dont like big men im sure that would make him less attractive in their eyes.

the reverse is true also, all these women that would rate alot of thing guys 9s or 10s would be knocked down for me because thats not my preference.

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

OMG!!!
Some of the BEST relationships I've had were with so-called "Unattractive" people!!!
You have a lot more fun with people when they are being themselves and they're not caught up in what others think.
And some of the most FIRE sexin I've EVER had was from "Average" or "Unattractive" chicks....wow.
Good GATDAYUM...you wouldn't believe it!!!
If they don't look perfect on the outside...trust...the goods are on the inside!!!

 

[mcdivit85]

Beauty is truly subjective. But with that said, most people would fall in the average realm. Very few people are overly attractive, which is why people are who are overly attractive receive so much attention. The same way someone who is rich receives more attention because most people are not rich. The same way someone driving a Lambo gets more attention because most people don't drive Lambos.

Most people date and/or marry people in the average range since that's what makes up the majority of the population. And not to mention, what one person finds drop dead gorgeous another person thinks is "meh."

Additionally, beauty is based on the social context of the society one lives in. For the last several hundred years, white supremacy has been the law of the earth. So, white beauty standards are what dominate. Therefore, the average and the above average will be fruit of that mindset. So, again what's average under this system is different than what's average under another.

Peace

 

[JBoy]

her face don't have to all that long as her booty phat

 

[mcdivit85]

Everybody except @Michael9100 will rush in here to say "we don't do average breh breh."

I see nothing wrong with average. As long as they treat you well and you think they are attractive... F what the world thinks.

People date for others in many cases. Same way people buy clothes and drive cars for others as well. They don't get that sh#t because they like it....they get it because they want the image that comes with those things. Same with people and their mates.

Dudes will date a chick who ain't sh#t, uses them for money, has a phone full of dudes, openly flirts with dudes on social media and still f#cks her ex. But because she looks good, that makes her a good look for him. Because other dudes give him props for having a "bad b#tch." Yea, a b#tch that's bad for his health, his finances, his reputation and eventually his state of mind.

And women are no better. They do the same. They date and fight over men they know aint sh#t over vanity. He looks good, he f#cks good, other women want him, etc. And then he ends up using her for a place to stay, clothes to wear and food to eat. So, he can save his money for going out to the club and catching b#tches in the car his chick co-signed.

Mature people realize their folly and make better choices going forward. Attractiveness grows from ONLY what's on the outside to what's on the inside as well. It's like a comedian once said, "When I was young, it was look at that fine ass chick...she fine as hell. Now, it's look at that chick with the good credit and no kids. Man, she fine as hell."

Peace

 

[Princess Coco]

Right!!! It's almost like they obsessed with it.

they spend to much time on the Coli and think all women should look like IG models

 

[Farrinto]

The vast majority of the world's population is average, with the minority being below and above average (my opinion), so odds are, you are the average person

 

[Phoenix_Knightly23]

My ex looks like Donald Glover so you already know how I feel about that

I think DG is a dime but others would consider him "average".

 

[newworldafro]

I'm average so...


I have dated guys that I didn't find attractive when I first met them. Being funny goes a long way with me because I love to laugh.

I don't rate people on numerical scales. I'm either attracted to you or I'm not.

Laughdigger......using guys to get your belly laughter on..........

 

[Draje]

My ex looks like Donald Glover so you already know how I feel about that

I think DG is a dime but others would consider him "average".

YOU the chick that likes Childish, right?

 

[Draje]

I don't understand how people can be physically unattractive to you but if they have a cool personality that can make them attractive. A cool person without physical attraction is called a friend

Doesn't mean in only attracted to hot women but if the thought of making out or getting naked with a women grosses me out at first sight I don't care how cool she is then isn't gonna make me attracted to her

I find that the things you like about people will be magnified when you really like their personality. When you find out more about people and chemistry grows, you become more attracted to them.

Believe me, it's true...it's how I get all my p*ssy