Alot of y'all don't know the difference between sex appeal and just being attractive/pretty.
Like a good example is Chloe Bailey, she's a very pretty girl but her trying to dress/act 'sexy' does not come across as natural at all; it looks very try hard so to speak. Like you can tell she has to practice how to look sexy and act sexy lol
Rihanna has very high natural sex appeal while also being attractive.
Someone mentioned that it's the female version of guys trying to act gangster when they are squares and that's the closest thing I can think of to it.
I saw a Reddit comment that sums up Chloe and the rest of that list perfectly:
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Her body is naturally sexy. If she just acted normal and dressed a bit more modestly she’d have more sex appeal.
She tries too hard to be sexy when she already is. It makes it look borderline trashy."