A good man to a younger woman is a man with her preferences. When they hit 30+, they start having a universal standard of what makes a good man. And everyone is entitled to their preferences. It's just annoying when they get older and complain about the lack of "good men" when they fumbled the opportunity to secure one when they were younger.
Again, people go for people they are attracted to. If that man was good on paper, and she got wet just looking at him, she would have chosen him. But, just because a person has good qualities, doesn’t mean you want to be physically intimate with them. So they aren’t passing up good men. They are rejecting men they aren’t attracted to. The attractive men get scooped up, so they are left with the average and below average ones, and out of those, they have to be compatible with, and be in the same place, same time, have the same values etc.
I don’t know why y’all think it’s that easy to meet your life partner.