Why don't women have sexual freedom? Because men call them hoes? If you are a grown woman that doesn't have sex with who she wants to because they are called sluts and hoes? If that's not the most bytchmade shyt ever
Also I said one of the reasons, meaning that is one part of a whole.
I understand that you’re trying to make a parallel but I’m not the right one for that particular argument. 1. I don’t have an issue with hoes being called hoes. If it walks like a duck then... 2. I actually agree with the latter part—own what you are. If you’re really living your life and not owning up to your truth because you don’t want to be called what you are? Man look that’s deep shyt. Can you imagine walking around living a double life, each day wondering if you’ll be exposed, feeling shame and confusion... and all because of what—fear of a label that actually does describe you? If your gay then your gay. And what’s in the dark always comes to the light eventually. But being deceptive and involving others in your messy shyt just because you’re too ashamed to be who you are is cowardly. Take responsibility for who you are—and if you can’t because your ashamed then stop engaging in those behaviors or at the very least don’t involve others who want nothing to do with that lifestyle.
That breh in the op has multiple men coming out of the woodworks admitting to fukking him on the low while he’s been with women, pretending to be straight. He’s in Atlanta, too. That woman will need to get tested ASAP. And no I don’t feel sorry for him or men like him who get exposed. Now he has no choice but to accept himself, but it’s come with a cost. Public humiliation, embarrassed his family, and hurt his girl.