This is very true. In the burbs you have more space and privacy which is cool and all, but in the city, your kids are enabled at a younger age to move around accordingly. Being 12-16 in the burbs is the worst if you don't have a car.
shyt, you really want your kids in overcrowded areas and wandering around late on school nights?
To me, America isnt like most other countries. Geographically speaking, America is the 3rd largest country on earth, and public transportation is lagging behind many 1st world countries. A car is necessary, especially in the winter months where people literally freeze to death waiting for Ill-prepared service for a train or a bus in cities. I known people being rushed to the hospital due to frostbite waiting for the bus. There is a reason why wealthy people who live in cities own cars in America. At some point, people get tired of waiting for public transportation that lets people down time and time again.