Yeah, that's not every man.
I don't see what you're going with there.
I don't see many nikkas turning down a chick cuz she has a job
All nikkas care about is if she looks good
Which is part of the problem
A lot of brehs (not all) yap a lot about wanting a "traditional" woman who will stay at home. Not saying there's anything wrong with a woman who stays at home, but the reasons a lot of dudes want such a woman are misplaced and centered around control and fear. A lot of dudes don't want a woman who has her own money because such a woman can't be controlled or manipulated as easily.
Funny thing is in the long run arrangements seem to be miserable in my experience. The dudes almost always have some kind of emotional issues that strain the marriage and the women almost always wind up resenting the dude. ESPECIALLY if the dude is not caked up to where he can provide a lifestyle that can overcome all that shyt. Nobody wants to feel like they are trapped in a marriage and a lot of times that's exactly what happens in these underfunded "traditional" arrangements. So yea I agree it's better to marry a woman with her own shyt... at least then you know she's probably in it to be with you, and not just to find a meal ticket.