To be honest if you're at the same level financially then a prenup is kinda silly. But if you are worth 140m and ole girl is half your age with nowhere near the money or status then you'd be a fool not to get one.
The prenup shyt makes more sense where there is a gap in finances, assets and earning potential. Where one person stands to gain a lot from a breakup.
Regular joes with no pot to piss n bringing up pre ups look silly as fukk
regular men get fukked on their house and alimony everyday breh. has nothing to do with finances.
the judge isn't not going to split your check just because you're not rich, it just means you'll have much less to live on with any amount you pay compared to a rich guy who can take an L and keep moving.
not to mention things change during marriages. get the prenup now or try negotiate your finances 10 years in the future when your wife tries to lay claim to what you've done for yourself