This might be extreme but let's take a brother who is like carlton from the fresh prince of bel air minus the wealth. In Jr high school and high school this dude may want to get with black women but they will actually clown him to his face call him lame, sorry, whack, nerd, and everything else. They won't even be nice to him. Those black women in their prime are fukking nikkas like maino and gucci mane. When college comes around the carlton type dude goes to college. But he doesnt go to tuskegee or some HBCU. He goes to a michigan, FSU, or DI school and meets other races of women that dont ridicule for his intellect, they admire him for it. That same brother goes on to become a lawyer or engineer do you reallly think he's gonna want the black women who dissed him. I can guarantee he will see those same black women later and they will be busted, fat, and with multiple b*stard babies whining about the lack of good men