Sounds like my mom.My mother never had fat friends and is very... 'weight- insensitive'.
When I was little I asked why and she told me, 'Because fat people are greedy.' There's a whole philosophy to it. She said the greed seeps into other areas of life, just gluttonous for ALL things. Damn if she wasn't right.
I said it before. If you’re bigger than a 6, she’s judging lol