“All Black Women are the Same”

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Sometimes (and i don't even like having the thought in my head) i think we shouldn't have ever given these hoes rights. Mainly kuz nowadays they be doing too much, knowing they doing too much but social media gone boost em up so they gone take they unrealistic ideals and run with em
I wouldn’t say all that. We listen to Women too much.

Unless it’s work related, their safety is in danger, or issues dealing with the medical field, there’s no reason that this many BM hold the opinion of random BW in such high regard.
 

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So in shape, money getting, ceo handsome breh rejects high school peak girl because she's fat and has kids out of wedlock.


While high school nerdy girl rejects in shape, money getting, ceo handsome breh because...he was too shy to talk to her in high school?



Sounds about right to me :mjlol:
He wasn’t too shy to talk to her in HS. He ignored her for the popular girl :why:
 

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You thought you had something here :pachaha:

Black women have been saying that black male nerds only chase after girls of others races. This meme comic doesn’t even align with yalls narrative :mjlol:

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Stop messing up my thread :wtf:
 

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Also, adult "bad boys" don't pull as much as dudes think. That's a big misconception about them.

I have a grown cousin in his late 30's who's constantly in and out of jail, an alcoholic, wears Tupac/Biggie T Shirts all the time, smells like weed everywhere he goes, and gets into fist fights at damn near every family gathering to the point where people have tried to ban him from stopping by.

He gets women all right but every single one of the women he pulls are obese and looked washed as hell. Not a single one of them is above a 5 unless you're into curvy bodies on obese women. And the crazy thing is that he's actually has an above average looking face albeit he's pretty short(5'5.)

And I've seen other adult "hood" guys like my cousin NOT pull baddies at all even if they tried. People overestimate how many "hot" women actual thugs pull.

I think that's why people focus on high school so much. In high school, unless you're in South Chicago or something, the average guy labeled a "thug" isn't that hardcore. He's usually either a buff jock, a dude with dreads, a dude who smokes and sells pot at a low level, or a dude who emulates a popular rapper. But those guys aren't actually "thugs." They're just edgy teens.

Actual thugs with rap sheets who can't get good jobs because of their criminal record mostly just pull women who are broke/on welfare, on drugs, ugly, obese, single moms, and strippers. They rarely pull top notch women unless they're moving like Frank Lucas which is rare.
This where the yt community got it right. It’s more of jock thing (Chad/Tyrone) than a thug thing (Ray/Pookie)
 
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false.

I agree that if you look like Ian Jones Quartey then you need to find yourself a Lizzo, but threads/arguments like these are made with the disingenuous implications that all nerdy black men who complain about not being able to find women look like Ian and are fiending for Nicki Minaj.

That's a nice argument to run with if you're a teenage girl or have no actual interest in hearing their points, but realistically no man is going to pass up a woman that isn't horrifically obese or ugly. Especially a nerdy black man.

The truth of the matter is there are a lot of black men that are 4s or 5s or maybe even higher and just need something that can give them that edge, but they're either being boxed out of the dating game or being told to settle

I saw a bunch of cosplay chicks being posted here. I'm not quoting it because I hate cluttering the page with images, but do you honestly think these women are checking for black men? If she isn't checking for nerdy white or asian dudes then her type is the same black man most black women like.
 

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This never happened. Most "lame" black women back then either went after the white guys or was also going after the "thug" aswell. Yall really got to stop thinking that men and women are the same. 90% of the time a woman's "cornyness" is tied into her looks; if she's good looking no man isn't going to care that she's not repping the block. Compared to Russell Wilson; he's a superbowl winning, tall, multimillionaire nfl player but he's still looked upon as "corny" and "lame" by BW because he doesn't act a certain way.
Males or females can be book smart and still popular and fit in with the cool kids. But style and swag is tied to looks for women the same as men. If girls aren’t flashy, don’t keep their hair and stuff looking good, dress in mom jeans, or church looking clothes… they are getting ignored. Just like a breh can be facially attractive but hair cut or style may be perceived as lame and corny. It’s the same for girls. Men like flashiness the same as women.
 

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So people are out here losing in real life and making comics about it?
 

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Males or females can be book smart and still popular and fit in with the cool kids. But style and swag is tied to looks for women the same as men. If girls aren’t flashy, don’t keep their hair and stuff looking good, dress in mom jeans, or church looking clothes… they are getting ignored. Just like a breh can be facially attractive but hair cut or style may be perceived as lame and corny. It’s the same for girls. Men like flashiness the same as women.


Those girls are not being ignored
Street nikkas love the homely/nerdy girl.
you guys keep trying to make it equal when it’s not.
 

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Partially right.

80-90% of them sound the same these days & it’s like they all use the manual. Perhaps, it’s due to social media & what the popular discourse revolves around.

They’re too predictable & you know what to expect. It’s boring/redundant.

I prefer my chicks to be spontaneous & expansive in subject-matter/outlook.
 

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This won't be popular, but it's disturbing in accuracy except for one thing: that unpopular brainy chick won't necessarily walk away from the money. All too often she'll stick around and date that CEO brother for entertainment, bleeding him slow while subconsciously resenting him the entire time.


Moral of the story: be good to everybody you meet, you never know when you might need a little grace yourself somewhere down the line.

Rastamouse is trying to kick knowledge.:russ:
 
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