Age Old Advice : Pick a man who loves you more than you love him

[LadySimone]

I gotta love my dude. He better love me more than he loves everyone else.

 

[Raava]

My bf says, "I love you more" I be like

GOT EMMMM, Got em...

I think people should be on the same page. I also think when they say this they don't mean a huge difference between feelings. Just don't chase a man. I agree with that.

 

[The Mad Titan]

If he loves you more he will kill you, but then if you love him more you can kill him first. Decisions.

Youve been hinting at killing nikkas alot I'm starting to believe if the love of your life cheated on you, you'd cut him.

 

[-DMP-]

I could never be in a relationship with a female who didn't love me more than I loved her.

-DMP-

 

[The Mad Titan]

I feel like its better if the woman loves the man more, as men don't think with there emotions as much but more so with there peen. You can keep that in check and or even get over it with enough self control, time or just staying busy. But emotions change with the wind and can lead to women and men doubting something they were sure about 6 months ago.


So if a woman isn't into her dude like that, and those hormones hit and she's emotional.... she starts to think "I don't know about this guy, I can probably do better" or "I dont know if I even like him as much as he likes me" its a problem.... especially if a frequent thing. But if she's way more into the dude then its not as big of an issue.

 

[Aceofspades404]

dumbest shyt Ive ever heard.. women looking to be trophy wives on the arm of some guy the dont really want why complicate thing this much?

you're overthinking. The phrase doesn't imply the woman doesn't love the man, in fact the woman has to love the man in order for this to work. I said this in another thread that goes hand with this statement. A man falls in love while a woman grows in love. If a man does not love you, there is no mountain you can move to make him which is why it is essential that a man loves you more. A woman can grow to love the man she is with and woman have a more natural devotion to love so it balances itself out.

 

[Elle Driver]

Youve been hinting at killing nikkas alot I'm starting to believe if the love of your life cheated on you, you'd cut him.

You gonna put up the bail money?

 

[The Mad Titan]

You gonna put up the bail money?

 

[mcdivit85]

Listen, as a man, your chick should treat you like you're "that dude." If your chick treats you like you're regular, then she won't be your chick for long.

That "he needs to love you more than you love him" is just another scorned chick anthem. The ironic thing is, even chicks who think like this will eventually always fall for the guy that they have to chase. They'll play that bullsh#t with some dude they don't see large value in. But let some dude they think is a catch walk in the door and chicks throw grandma's advice out the window.

Just is.

Peace

 

[Ashley Banks]

Listen, as a man, your chick should treat you like you're "that dude." If your chick treats you like you're regular, then she won't be your chick for long.

That "he needs to love you more than you love him" is just another scorned chick anthem. The ironic thing is, even chicks who think like this will eventually always fall for the guy that they have to chase. They'll play that bullsh#t with some dude they don't see large value in. But let some dude they think is a catch walk in the door and chicks throw grandma's advice out the window.

Just is.

Peace

I think that's what you want to happen

 

[BedRoomI'z]

you're overthinking. The phrase doesn't imply the woman doesn't love the man, in fact the woman has to love the man in order for this to work. I said this in another thread that goes hand with this statement. A man falls in love while a woman grows in love. If a man does not love you, there is no mountain you can move to make him which is why it is essential that a man loves you more. A woman can grow to love the man she is with and woman have a more natural devotion to love so it balances itself out.

I could never be that woman.
Like I got to convince myself to love him or be attracted to him.
Sounds like a security/lifestyle set-up and I know how women
operate who choose to place themselves in situations like this.

Everything has to be mutual and both parties must be on the same page
in order for anything to work. And I also know that "love" and "in love" are
two different states of mind for a woman. I can love you, but you won't
be in my bed

 

[Womb Raider]

Men like to take advantage thats why he has to love her more than she loves him.

that goes both ways, actually

 

[Ronnie Macho]

This don't work either, because eventually your true feelings will
make themselves known.

Noone deserves that. You can be a selfish brawd by yourself(I'm living proof)
Can't drag others into your fukkery

Exactly...was gonna say nikkas can see thru that fake love...and eventually things will come to a head...mutual love and respect along with setting boundaries can create a successful courtship or "relationship"...

At the end of the day...just love yourself...

 

[Dreamer]

I think men just literally don't love like we do, so when we say love we mean it we show it all the time, I don't expect anyone to put me on a pedestal, but i do want to feel like they love me just a lil bit extra, so I feel secure, I already know I don't stray but I'd like to make sure they don't, ik wishful thinking

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

I thought it was a good idea but honestly, it leaves him too open for heartbreak and me too capable of causing it.


It needs to be an equal playing field.