Speaking Womanese
All Star
I've seen and lived thru otherwise. First case I liked a chick, she wasn't feelin me and I moved on, as soon as I was with someone else she was calling my line 40+ times a day literally and texting me back to back to back saying she sorry and missed me. I curved her. 2nd case was a friend who was feeling an introverted girl who didn't date much at all but they stayed close, been married 6+ years and seem incredibly happy. Not all women are birds like this broad.
Her first option curved her and that’s when she chased you but you had moved on.
The 2nd chick was introverted who didn’t date much which worked well in your friend’s favour because she didn’t have much to compare him to.
Not saying their marriage is fraudulent but I was referring to raw, primal attraction like, “I wanna be wherever you are.”
My middle-aged white colleagues have a way of describing settling and its, “the music stopped and we were the only ones left on the dance floor.” THAT is what posters on here are telling you to avoid.