Despite their best efforts, 'Tunde's parents were not able to steer their older son, Azeem, away from the dangers awaiting a young African American man on the streets of Oakland.
Father's advice
"I've always told my boys that it's very easy to get into trouble, but very hard to get out of it," Mubarak Ahmad said.
Mubarak Ahmad worried about Azeem. And silently, so did 'Tunde.
Mubarak warned Azeem that a person he was hanging out with would one day get him caught up in trouble, and sadly, he was right.
In 2012, Azeem was caught carrying guns to be used in an Oakland stash house robbery that turned out to be a federal sting operation. He was convicted on conspiracy charges and shipped off to a federal prison in March 2013, sentenced to 41 months.
"We got the same mother, the same father, just a different path," 'Tunde said. "I feel like it's a setback for him, but sometimes it takes that kind of shock to grab your attention."
'Tunde's got an old man's brain working in a young man's body, and while he may sound bookish, he's anything but one-dimensional.
He's a student-athlete who played basketball for three years - until deciding to focus solely on baseball this year. He was the MVP of the Oakland Athletic League baseball in 2013, hitting around .500 with 15 or so stolen bases. He expects to play baseball where ever he goes to college next fall.
He's a member of the Young Musicians Choral Orchestra, and plays trumpet, French horn and the djembe - a West African drum.
His work ethic is as much a part of him as an extremity, and his commitment to his time-management regimen may have saved his life.
In January 2013, two months before his brother was incarcerated, 'Tunde declined an invitation from Azeem to hang out at a friend's house because he had an essay due for school. At that house, five people were shot, including his brother, who suffered two gunshot wounds.
"There's plenty of people I know who have been killed," he said. "I could write a list starting in elementary school of all the people we grew up with who have been killed."