its beyond thatIf you don't believe in yourself, who will?
People get so intimidated when you have supreme self confidence
they fall in line and assume natural role of followers and treat you as the leader
its like a subconscious response, probably a remnant of our tribal mind (you can only have 1 leader if you hope to succeed)
it has its drawbacks tho, because i cant stand being in a follower role and any form of failure no matter how small is devastating and makes me constantly feel furious for days on end when I should just move on