Adrian Peterson--2 Year Old Son Attacked and in a coma... Police Investigating

[YouMadd?]

None of us know the particulars of any of Adrian's relationships... It's sad that we can't just mourn a dead child. It has to turn into a bunch of people online trying to prove someone else's imperfections just so they can be "right" on a message board... Unless you've walked in someone's shoes, you can't really make a judgement on what is right or wrong in regards to their life because what is right or wrong is dependent on the person. But I guess we all do things perfectly though so we are most definitely in the position to judge people we've never met. I know playing pro football isnt therapy for me, and I know I don't have a dead son... So I couldn't tell you what is right or wrong in this situation.

Edit: meant to say pro football isn't therapy for me.

 

[M617]

What reincar was saying is that AP cares about his other kids more and wanted this to be a secret from the world.

my bad if i read it wrong i am drinking(no excuse but still)

but even that is bad. he is a perfect shaped black guy with millions he can have any chick he wants but he is still banging broads who will fukk with guys who do this foul shyt.

 

[CrimsonTider]

So did AP's wife know about this kid brehs?

Let me ask you this, do you really think you have to spank your child? Or do you feel that your voice and presence would be enough for them to understand you?

i've thought long and hard about this, and the solution is



wait till marriage to have kids gasp

that aint the solution.

but, I won't derail this thread

 

[MikelArteta]

None of us know the particulars of any of Adrian's relationships... It's sad that we can't just mourn a dead child. It has to turn into a bunch of people online trying to prove someone else's imperfections just so they can be "right" on a message board... Unless you've walked in someone's shoes, you can't really make a judgement on what is right or wrong in regards to their life because what is right or wrong is dependent on the person. But I guess we all do things perfectly though so we are most definitely in the position to judge people we've never met. I know playing pro football is therapy for me, and I know I don't have a dead son... So I couldn't tell you what is right or wrong in this situation.

im sure if your son was in a coma would you leave before hte plug was pulled?

 

[Bone$]

Damn Nyggas, flex clue, Desean Jax, every nygga on instagram got ap Jr posted with rip like that's the son that died, ap shyt all fukked up, business everywhere, damn rip

 

[THE MACHINE]

2-year old just got beaten to a pulp by a grown man. focus/anger should be on the coward who committed this act, not on whether or not AP was in his kid's life

Agree 100% but when the parent is a public figure and the first time you see him since hearing of the news he is so nonchalant, it's a bit disturbing.

but AD only knew 100% it was his kid last week though. (1)I'm sure he planned to spend the offseason with him or something like that. But how can you grieve with someone you only seen twice a year?

It's weird, it's like a step/half brother you've never been close to, is dying in a hospital bed. You are supposed to sit down and think about all the memories yall had together and shyt like that. But if nothing comes up, you are like "damn, Im disrespecting this dude by even being here, I should let someone who really knew him be here"

This is the dumbest shyt i had ever seen to hate someone over....(2) if the mom is there, AD can leave.

and yall nikkas that want AD to break down crying in front of the cameras during a 2min interview, stop watching movies

this basically what im tryin to say

1. What makes you say this

2. what is this, shift work. It seems they have things they should be talking about but it appears he did go there for a period of time

I'm going to try not to go in on AP any more though, I want to stay focused on the mom and boyfriend.

 

[Mic-Nificent]

Agree 100% but when the parent is a public figure and the first time you see him since hearing of the news he is so nonchalant, it's a bit disturbing

Not if you understand that people react differently to tragic events. You don't know nearly enough about AP to conclude that his reaction is either disturbing or unusual. I've sadly seen how a few people have reacted to losing a child, some react with anger, some completely break down, others as nonchalant as AP did.

People are different and they process things differently.

 

[YouMadd?]

im sure if your son was in a coma would you leave before hte plug was pulled?

I don't know... Never had a son in a coma. Couldn't make a proclamation on what I would or wouldn't do because everyone has different circumstances. See you are in here trying to bend all of the AD's circumstances so it justifies your good ole Christian judgement of the man, when in reality, we don't know how long he knew the kid, we don't know how he is feeling. We do know he said that football is his escape and how he deals with tough situations, and that has been a trend in his life so take that for what it is. Doesn't make you or I better than him.

Even if I could give you an answer on what I would do, neither one on particular is right or wrong. Not everyone wants to "be there" to watch a plug get pulled... There is no right or wrong way to grieve or mourn unless you are doing something to physically harm other people ofcourse... That might be considered wrong.

 

[ProfessionallyTrill]

It's less about marriage and more about two parent households.

That last bullet point shouldn't be glossed over either.

The absence of Father's in black households is also a good bit deeper than simply dudes being deadbeat dads.

It's less about marriage and more about two parent households.

That last bullet point shouldn't be glossed over either.

The absence of Father's in black households is also a good bit deeper than simply dudes being deadbeat dads.

Agreed. America is the only country obsessed with the contract of marriage as if without the certificate everything is fukked which is bullshyt.
The problem does deal w/ my fellow brothers sticking around despite the mother. At the very least have a relationship.

But....

fukk a marriage statistic for Black folks if everyone else is just getting married to have kids then getting divorced later.

 

[MikelArteta]

I don't know... Never had a son in a coma. Couldn't make a proclamation on what I would or wouldn't do because everyone has different circumstances. See you are in here trying to bend all of the AD's circumstances so it justifies your good ole Christian judgement of the man, when in reality, we don't know how long he knew the kid, we don't know how he is feeling. We do know he said that football is his escape and how he deals with tough situations, and that has been a trend in his life so take that for what it is. Doesn't make you or I better than him.

Even if I could give you an answer on what I would do, neither one on particular is right or wrong. Not everyone wants to "be there" to watch a plug get pulled... There is no right or wrong way to grieve or mourn unless you are doing something to physically harm other people ofcourse... That might be considered wrong.

looks at your avatar figures.

Funny how your trying to pull my "Christian" card because I call out a man for abandoning his seed on his death bed.

its more important to fly back for practice than it is to be there when your son is pulled off life support.

 

[YouMadd?]

looks at your avatar figures.

Funny how your trying to pull my "Christian" card because I call out a man for abandoning his seed on his death bed.

its more important to fly back for practice than it is to be there when your son is pulled off life support.

I pull out the Christian card because I notice Christians do a lot of judging without walking an inch in someone else's shoes. You guys have it all figured out

 

[Gil Scott-Heroin]

looks at your avatar figures.

Funny how your trying to pull my "Christian" card because I call out a man for abandoning his seed on his death bed.

its more important to fly back for practice than it is to be there when your son is pulled off life support.

nikka YOU DON'T KNOW HIS SITUATION. just leave it at that. what is wrong with you dudes in that you think you have the answers to things you virtually know nothing about.

 

[MikelArteta]

I pull out the Christian card because I notice Christians do a lot of judging without walking an inch on someone else's shoes. You guys have it all figured out

oh no i cant say its wrong to abandon your son on his death bed, instead flying back to practice for a football game while life support is pulled, im such a big judger

 

[Mic-Nificent]

Agreed. America is the only country obsessed with the contract of marriage as if without the certificate everything is fukked which is bullshyt.
The problem does deal w/ my fellow brothers sticking around despite the mother. At the very least have a relationship.

But....

fukk a marriage statistic for Black folks if everyone else is just getting married to have kids then getting divorced later.

Yup, a lot of folks have them shotgun weddings where the girl gets knocked up early on, they get pressured into marriage and break up a year or two later.

 

[YouMadd?]

oh no i cant say its wrong to abandon your son on his death bed, instead flying back to practice for a football game while life support is pulled, im such a big judger

You calling it abandonment would imply him being at the hospital would save the child's life.

Dude said being with his teammates(his support system) helps him in tough times. Who made the rule that you have to watch someone on life support get the plug pulled. I know plenty of people couldn't handle that and had to be somewhere else. Oh wait but they were abandoning the person on the deathbed because they grieve in their own way that isn't agreeable to yours

There is more than one way to deal with things...

But whatever... I'm over this discussion, I'm gonna go look at art