Admit it brehs, a 30+ year old women who isn't married is someone you question

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Its the same for both genders and I find it stupid

If a man isn't married in his 30s, he's a player, bachelor, major baggage maybe he's gay

If a woman she rode the cock carousel, major baggage, friendzoned a bunch of nice guys, too picky


Both are ludicrous.

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Being in a relationship or even getting married is easy.

Anyone can do it. Now being in a worthwhile relationship or a great marriage.

I don't need a chick to fill any void.




Personally, I never question any guy that's single as defected goods, maybe he just prefers to be happy and single and not miserable + taken :manny:
 

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There is no best age for marriage, putting a time frame on marriage most likely you will settle. On some having money to spend in free agency no one worthwhile out there so handing big ass deals to fringe players.




Late 20's is the best age for marriage, I don't want to be some old ass dude when my kids are starting to grow
 

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Being in a relationship or even getting married is easy.

Anyone can do it. Now being in a worthwhile relationship or a great marriage.

I don't need a chick to fill any void.

I don't disagree with you, but it's still human nature to question things, as wrong as it is.

There is no best age for marriage, putting a time frame on marriage most likely you will settle. On some having money to spend in free agency no one worthwhile out there so handing big ass deals to fringe players.

All that is important but I talk to parents and lot of them feel sad their kids growing so fast and they're going to be too old when they can really be active with them

Again, human nature
 

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This is the deal.. if it is a cute, cool down to earth chick that is like 30 with no kids and not married the question is why? What makes her so different from the rest that no man has grabbed her attention enough to tie her down?


Men usually are the aggressors, so that means either a random attractive chick has been swatting down men through her prime, or men have been running from her for whatever reason. And even if men have been running from the relationship there should have been one that got in dem drawers shot up the club and flee'd the scene by 30.


Its really just a common sense question, its like a pile of hundred dollar bills sitting in the middle of a mall and people are walking by like its no big deal. As a man you feel like there has to be something your missing. When in reality alot of the time its just that you got lucky.
 

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The average person lives till almost 80 now.

As long as your child is healthy :manny:
No difference to me for a man having a kid at 28 or at 38


All I'm saying I always sew it with women they want to get married before 30, so at 28,29 as that clock around ticks they will settle for any Joe blow



I don't disagree with you, but it's still human nature to question things, as wrong as it is.



All that is important but I talk to parents and lot of them feel sad their kids growing so fast and they're going to be too old when they can really be active with them

Again, human nature
 
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I know what you are saying but its not correct.

I have three good friends going through divorces because they got married too young.
example 1 is sick of wife because she is too facebook / look at me.... so he left her. They have 2 small kids.
example 2's wife left him because she literally changed post kids reaching 16.
example 3 says he should not have gotten married in the first place, and the pressures of life made him do it. They have a small child.

In all scenarios the guys are left with no money, homes ... ans the kids stay with the ex wives.
these situations are difficult to recover from...


the message here is that you need to be absolutely sure and its probaboy better to wait...
30-35 is a better age (people know what they want by then)

The only thing is starting late and having kids..
do you want to be a 60 putting a kid through college ? I would say as much as this is a pain.. nothing is worse than f£&@ing up early.
 

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I'm still not married, if you think something is wrong with me :yeshrug:. I was asked to get married in my youth and I declined due to the fact that I was too young. I believe getting married is actually a easy task, but finding the right person for you can be hard sometimes. If I don't get married, its not ideal, but if I don't, I'll just be the best aunt there is :ehh:.
 
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