Kinda sounds like . So only after you actually get married the sex drive becomes an issue? I dated a full blown sex addict and that shyt became a headache after three months of fukking anytime and everywhere with absolutely nothing to look forward to but her initiating sex and being a total idiot before and after. You don't marry nymphomaniacs,you fukk them and keep your horny teenage fantasies out of the decision making,you'll be better for it.