Going back and forth with a Black Woman on Youtube right now. Know what her deflection is? To the men that put "exotic" or White girls on a pedestal. Basically, if these girls were "feeling loved", they would've never been in that situation. Also is hoping that Black Men end up catching aids from Beckies for the mean things they said in comments. You can't make this shyt up.
One thing I've learned is that the L's accumulated by Black Men are our own. No one ever deflects to anyone else when shyt hits the fan for us. Any attempt at that is immediately shutdown. Let a cac do some evil ass shyt and somehow, it can't be all on him. It has to also be on Black Men for "not doing their part". Even here, in a situation where the dude blatantly admitted what he was about, people justify the shyt and somehow throw the blame in other areas.
I don't know why I even bother anymore. It's a waste of time trying to dialogue with certain people. A lot of Black People are lost and that's the truth. Notice how any amount of fukkery by Black Men immediately gets a video from the known Black Women of Youtube, yet you don't see many of them (there's only one) talking about this?
If your going to get on YouTube you have to filter and weed out toxic shyt. I get on YouTube and I have nothing negative in my subscription feed. Mainly asmr and songs from my favorite music genre are recommended. I don’t have subscriptions to any YouTube “scholar” or “reporter”. Let’s be real, anyone can make a video and upload it to YouTube and call themselves a subject expert or the spokesperson for a subgroup of people. They could be crazy as fukk, bitter, not know what the fukk they’re talking about—yet they’ll find some people that choose to follow their videos. It’s accessible to anyone. That’s why so many do it these days. Even my 8 year old son has been making videos he wants to put on YouTube.
That’s why as a viewer you have to choose what you want to watch, who you want to follow, and who you respond to. That woman is probably hurt and bitter with some grievances about bm that she focuses on in her channel. No different from brehs on here who generalize bw and don’t date us, use every reason and story to validate why bw are so unpleasant but never comment on threads that have stories about all the crazy racist Beckies that are just as unpleasant. And if they do, it’s to say “well all women do this” type of shyt, to undermine the fact that it was done by a ww.
I’ve come to the conclusion that there are groups of blacks on both sides(bm and bw) that have had negative experiences with the opposite sex, that they hold against the opppsite sex, and often they won’t change their minds. No matter how much it’s proven that wm and ww are racist and not to be trusted, these people will still believe whites are more pleasant than their own. You’ll never get them to see things your way so no use going back and forth.
