A neogaf mod was arrested for child porn UPDATE: Owner has sexual assault history and site down.

[Rembrandt]

Who said anything about "consistently"

Like I said y'all want to play dumb and argue against strawmen.

Every single fukking day both men and women incorrectly assume a person may be into them. That doesn't make them retarded.

My first time kissing my wife, I just went for it. We were in high school, we were "freinds" and she purposely went out of her way to act hard to get. One day i said "fukk it" and went for the kiss. Obviously it worked out now 15 years and 4 kids later. But by the standards y'all posting here I was a retarded sexual abuser

First time we had sex she grabbed my dikk first. She sexualy assaulted me???

This shyt y'all saying is straight bullshyt.

Most importantly, once boundaries were set, boundaries were respected.

All else is gray area that we as outsiders don't know the full context.

You said mistake general pleasantries and positive interaction for sexual attraction.

What does your story about your wife have to do with that?

 

[Camammal]

Who said anything about "consistently"

Like I said y'all want to play dumb and argue against strawmen.

Every single fukking day both men and women incorrectly assume a person may be into them. That doesn't make them retarded.

My first time kissing my wife, I just went for it. We were in high school, we were "freinds" and she purposely went out of her way to act hard to get. One day i said "fukk it" and went for the kiss. Obviously it worked out now 15 years and 4 kids later. But by the standards y'all posting here I was a retarded sexual abuser

First time we had sex she grabbed my dikk first. She sexualy assaulted me???

This shyt y'all saying is straight bullshyt.

Most importantly, once boundaries were set, boundaries were respected.

All else is gray area that we as outsiders don't know the full context.

You sound like a sexual predator breh. Just saying...

You reaching hard to defend this shyt

If my homie was gay. No way in hell I'd be getting drunk and sharing rooms with him.

If I partied and got drunk with him, and then we went to the room and he tried to get me, obviously I'd be appalled. But I would also have to look at myself and how my own actions resulted in me drunk naked in a shower with a gay dude standing behind me

That's not the point, I've gotten drunk with my homies at hotels plenty of times...it's not a matter of being gay or not, we are adults and secure with our sexuality. The point is that you would feel violated, yes or no?

 

[winb83]

Are you serious nikka?

You hop in a shower with a woman who had absolutely no intentions of having sex with you and even worse while she is intoxicated and throwing up...YES that's sexual harrasment.

So if you in a hotel room with a chick and you go for a kiss and she says no is that sexual harassment to? At some point if you're trying to have sex with a woman you as a man have to make a physical advance on her. If you make that advance and she rejects it and you back off how is that sexual harassment? If that's the case then sexual harassment would be determined by how she responds to your advance rather than the advance itself.

 

[Zero]

We got nikkas in here trying to justify the actions of a predatorial cac with a proven history of sexual misconduct


The internet is truly a magical place where people have conversations they wouldn't dare bring up offline

 

[42 Monks]

Who knows more?

Y'all just keep moving goalposts and are incapable of having a nuanced discussion about the topic.

clearly not you

people know i've been attached to half of this shyt and that my own site exists because of the rifts that dude created with guys who helped build that site and some of its best communities

he been full of shyt, and you don't know anything other than "well they were both drunk" like that link is even half the story

 

[Rain]

Did this exact thing with my wife last night.

Am I a rapist?

So you had sex with your drunk wife? You couldn't wait for her to get sober? You sure she's your wife?

 

[Camammal]

So if you in a hotel room with a chick and you go for a kiss and she says no is that sexual harassment to? At some point if you're trying to have sex with a woman you as a man have to make a physical advance on her. If you make that advance and she rejects it and you back off how is that sexual harassment? If that's the case then sexual harassment would be determined by how she responds to your advance rather than the advance itself.

So you're equating going for a kiss (which takes a level of comfort from both parties to get that close and visual body language) to just hopping butt ass naked in a shower without warning? I'm convinced you are either retarded or a sexual predator.

 

[Rembrandt]

So if you in a hotel room with a chick and you go for a kiss and she says no is that sexual harassment to? At some point if you're trying to have sex with a woman you as a man have to make a physical advance on her. If you make that advance and she rejects it and you back off how is that sexual harassment? If that's the case then sexual harassment would be determined by how she responds to your advance rather than the advance itself.

how are any of those like jumping in the shower with her with no permission.

 

[datnigDASTARDLY]

wtf is going on in here?!

This harassment shyt got yall nukkas turning into Gaf as we speak.

Moral of the story is, when in doubt don't pull it out

 

[Thoughtspeak]

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Let's reverse the situation, so you with ya homie in a hotel and y'all get drunk and he hops in the shower with you with his dikk out..You wouldn't feel violated? How is this situation any different?

Put yourself in this ladies shoes.

Why am I sharing a room with another grown man? And why is it just us two drinking together? Same shyt applies.

Honestly I'm not on that bromance tip either. The only reason you would feel more violated if was a dude is cus you didn't even imagine that another man was interested in you.

A more apt comparison is if your homie was a gay dude. How many of you straight men are agreeing to drink alone and share a room with dude you know likes dikk?

 

[MeachTheMonster]

You sound like a sexual predator breh. Just saying...

You reaching hard to defend this shyt

Like I said, y'all are incapable of having a nuanced conversation on this. If closing your eyes and leaning in for a kiss is "sexual predator" shyt then 99% of boys and girls are sexual predators.

That's not the point, I've gotten drunk with my homies at hotels plenty of times...it's not a matter of being gay or not, we are adults and secure with our sexuality. The point is that you would feel violated, yes or no?

That is the point. She knew he was a heterosexual male.

Just like if you knew your homeboy is gay, you're not gonna shower in front of him. But you'd go to the gym with and showere with your heterosexual homies without giving it any thought.

And to answer your question yes I would feel violated, but no I wouldn't consider it assault and I would definitely spend some time reflecting on how I ended up there.

 

[Camammal]

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Why am I sharing a room with another grown man? And why is it just us two drinking together? Same shyt applies.

Honestly I'm not on that bromance tip either. The only reason you would feel more violated if was a dude is cus you didn't even imagine that another man was interested in you.

A more apt comparison is if your homie was a gay dude. How many of you straight men are agreeing to drink alone and share a room with dude you know likes dikk?

Y'all nikkas sound like children, you're saying two grown ass men can't share a hotel room ? I've been to Vegas with homies and pre-gamed at the hotel, does that make you gay?

 

[MeachTheMonster]

So you had sex with your drunk wife? You couldn't wait for her to get sober? You sure she's your wife?

I was drunk as fukk too. Almost don't remember it(one of the few times we've had a babysitter 100% true story)

Did she rape me??

 

[Zero]

y'all are incapable of having a nuanced conversation on this.

Jumping in the shower naked with a broad who just earl'd who aint your girl?

aint no nuance nikka

 

[MeachTheMonster]

Jumping in the shower naked with a broad who just earl'd who aint your girl?

aint no nuance nikka

Relationships start like this every day B

Let's say she didn't tell him no. And she was with it.

Did he still "sexualy assault" her?