a Malcolm X quote on a good wife

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[quoted from the autobiography speaking on his wife Betty ]

You see, Islam is the only religion that gives both husband and wife a true understanding of what love is. The Western "love" concept, you take it apart, it really is lust. But love transcends just the physical. Love is disposition, behavior, attitude, thoughts, likes, dislikes-these things make a beautiful woman, a beautiful wife. This is the beauty that never fades. You find in your Western civilization that when a man's wife's physical beauty fails, she loses her attraction. But Islam teaches us to look into the woman, and teaches her to look into us.


Love is disposition, behavior, attitude, thoughts, likes, dislikes-these things make a beautiful woman, a beautiful wife. This is the beauty that never fades.




some food for thought for you brothers and sisters.
im gonna go out on a limb and say its better to take advice from Brother Malcolm after years of marriage.
than your random unmarried coli breh



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I agree... looks are overrated, even when it comes to lust, let alone a relationship.
Even off of pure lust, i learned Just because a woman looks good, don't mean she fukks good... I had some butterfaces that sucked my soul , and left me in trances for weeks at a time... and some dimes that were wack as hell...

and to tie this with Jesse williams, and Minka, Aryn situation. Whats mind boggling is the amount of grown adults who were saying Minka was an upgrade... as if all that matters in a relationship is just looks. In-fact many blk women were stating that he looks to good to be with his wife for quite some time, even before the divorce..
 

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We always forget how many incentives women have to screw over men. This is western civilization, not some Islamic country where men have more power. The average Woman has more power than the average man. Our govt have made it this way.

Expecting longterm loyalty and trust from an american woman is a huge gamble that many men have taken and many have failed.
 
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