You married a white woman and thought that she would care about hygiene and personal space?
You do not want to have this conversation.
I am not autistic and I do not have ocd.
Maybe a little.
The fact is your hands are NEVER clean.
It is impossible to clean your hands fully.
So you, her and everybody else fukkin nasty and eating bacteria/germs.
I will not argue about this shyt.
Your hands are never clean, no matter how much you wash them.
You the type that would not run out of a restaurant if the chef exits the bathroom.
Matter fact, you on ignore.