90 Days: NO Porn or Fap Challenge

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You know, in noviembre, messed with 3 women. Slept with 2 and the third a blow job.

The first girl was back in the first week of Nov in Las Vegas for sema (this big booty chick from Cleveland). She was great, i busted twice, once the night she came to my room and in the morning before girl bounced. Easiest nut i ever bust (but i think it came from the thrill and finally delivering pipe on vacay).

About a week and a half later get hit up from girl i messed with from Summer... now this is where the problem commences.

Prior to this, i've been beating off consistently, thinking about ole girl from the club in Aria and how she had the wettest puss i've had in years. Wow.

So as i'm getting it in with summer squeeze, gawt damnit, i couldn't nut for shiit. After 20 minutes of continuous strokage, she got dryer than Death Valley on the 4th of Julio.

She ended up getting tired and knocked out. There i was, with a jimmy on and erector on full strength.

The culprit was my excessive masturbation after coming back from Vegas tainting my psyche and the psychological excitement of doing somebody new wasn't there (so a multitude of factors - even though i was horny as hell and this girl being WAYYY better looking and sexually superior to the Vegas chick).

So when girl knocked out, i laid there and just beat my shiit off until exhaustion... and ultimately - a nut.

Fast foward to last weekend. New gal I met a couple weeks back going out. Fresh 21 year old from NY, here for school of Lebanese descent. Real thick (booty muscle thick and tight as fukk!). Any who, we've been talking for the past 2 weeks and finally, last weekend, after a couple drinks, i took her upstairs of this multi-plex shopping area where there are lounges/bars in there. We entered this abandoned stock room (door was miraculously open) and i got her squatting and proceeded to give me dome.

I got hard.

So what's the prollem, right?

I couldn't bust. For shiit!

Once again, the desensitization of excessive porn fukked up my mind. I needed her to have her clothes off and giving me wild, wethead, not some passive pacifier-esque type suck job that i'm used to - both hands, generating copious amounts of saliva to lubricate the unit etc. (i.e. via porn production style fellatio-ness).

But before the vegas experience, i had issues ejaculating during copulation numerous times before. And mind you, these are decent gals (6's to 7's - essentially, average to slightly above but DTF).

What i want now is to revert back to my tween years, when even a hug from a woman would be enough to erectify the wood.

I basically want my sexual sensitivity meter to be on full power without compromising my swag or overall le flaire (which i'm afraid may occur if i go on this abstaining run).

Guess we'll just have to see.

Going on dates with a loaded gun just may make me too nervous and anxious to get a nut off that i get awkward (just like i was in my adolescence when i didn't know how to interact with the opposite sex).

Is that possible?

Fukk. I dunno.


But count a fella in.


Let's reprogram/reboot and filter out the sleeziness that has been such a detriment to our manhood and perception of reality.

Machismo can still be achieved and appreciation for the female touch can still be a luxury that should be adored and sacred.

You just have to find that happy medium and ride that train of neutrality.

Breaghsteins... we can fukkin' do this.


*packs backs, takes deep breath and purchases tickets for the journey*


Let's geaux.


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I'm in brehs.

This is the beginning of day 2 for me
 

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Thank you. To have an orgasm lol

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suggest watching the Your Brain on Porn series (located on the sidebar) and reaing through the yourbrainonporn blogsite. There is a lot of great info there.

But in a nutshell; the idea is to give up an addiction, whether that be pornography, masturbation, or both (and usually they go hand in hand). The goal isn't to become sexless monks, but rather to enhance your sex life by going through a brain "reboot." Since pornography, our brains have become so accustomed to the visual side of fake, onscreen sex that we no longer react simply to a woman's kiss or a light touch. We begin to make excuses not to go out and meet people or get girls because we've become perfectly happy living in our fantasy world, where you can simply pleasure yourself and not have to worry about finding someone else to do it for you.

Conditioning the brain this way is unhealthy, and it has led to a lot of problems in the bedroom for many many men and women. The "reboot process" is done through giving up PMO (porn, masturbation, orgasm) for at least 90 days, letting your brain revert back. Your brain will heal, giving up the desensitizing harm that porn has done to it and be able to view sex in a better, more intimate light.

During this process, some people still choose to have orgasms as long as they are from real intercourse (though its said that it slows down the process for some people). Personally, I plan on going without porn or masturbation. I will have sex, but I plan on going without it for at least the first 30 days.

All in all, you're ridding yourself of an addiction; whatever you think that means to you. You're allowing your brain and body to stop being dependent on it. Its probably not for everyone, but I've read through all the benefits that seem to come from it and have decided I want that for myself, so I'm giving it a shot :smile:

If you want to give it a shot, you can check out the sidebar and get a counter badge to count the days (helps keep track of progress much easier) and find different web blockers and things you can install to keep you from wondering onto porn sites when the urge arises.


I ain't got a chance of meetin a woman right now right but up until yesterday I was on hold for about 40 days.
I didn't go the way but watched some porn tho.
 
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