That's why I can't even enjoy the fukkery most of the time in cases like these. I'm not sure what exactly we expect these sorts of dudes to do. A lot of them are so deeply stunted and behind their peers in terms of basic grooming, social, career and life skills that it would take a multi-year, herculean effort for them to just achieve "below average" in the domestic dating game. And remember, at the end of all that work - they're now 5 or even 10 years older. They don't have that kind of time to take for themselves - few of them come from any real money, and it isn't like they're working high-status jobs that leave them energized and proud of themselves at the end of the day, eager to tackle the weight room or go to a speed dating event.
I'm a big fan of self-improvement, but I also don't believe in setting people up to fail. Many of these guys simply never had anyone to guide them along the process of maturing, and their falling behind early compounded over time until they reached their current shameful position in life. We have to remember - they're still human beings, they still crave companionship and affection (and providing those things to another human as well). For the most part, they aren't violent criminals or high-end white collar embezzlers. They're just males at the bottom of the heap, hoping for once in their lives to share a bed with a woman that they aren't paying by the hour.
It's mostly just sad and depressing for me to see this sort of shyt. There's a quote from Michel Houellebecq that I think really captures my attitude toward all this:
"If people don’t have a sex life, it’s not for some moral reason, it’s just because they’re ugly."
Their lack of social awareness is really tough to watch, especially the fellas. It also validates the perception that any American male is a golden ticket to being an overnight celebrity once married.
These girls will be in a for a rude awakening once they become a sex slave for a broke dude who tucks in his shirt and looks like they could be on episode of Intervention.