Look breh's and brehette's, both parties are to blame for this fukkery, but as a man, we need to be held to a higher standard since we are supposed to be LEADERS of the household. Breh's, you are the gardener, you are the ones that carry the seeds of life. So before sex starts, it is men that hold all the POWER, women can not get PREGNANT without are sperm. Real ALPHA nikka's know this and are cognitive of the type of women they choose to sleep with. So once you decide to have sex and bust that NUT, you now lose your power and give it over to the women. I bring this up because only BETA males believe women hold all the power and they deflect responsibility. But I understand why a lot of you breh's think like that, because you grew up in a single parent home ironically, so with no father figure, the probability of you being a BETA thinking male are extremely high. With no male LEADERSHIP in the household, you get BETA thinking males, and you get young girls looking for the lowest in are communities to continue this fukked up cycle.
Also we need to bring up the religious aspect to this, You have 72% of or babies born out of wedlock, but in are community 95% of people believe in a GOD. In that 95%, 70% claim to be apart of some christian denomination and the other 20% make up being Muslim, Jewish and other belief systems. One of the core tenants of all of these Abrahamic faiths is to have NO SEX before marriage. So why are all of these Christians, Muslims and Jews in are community ignoring the rules of there religion?